Me and my fiancée are in a real confused and tensed state.
We love each other more than anything, or anybody..

Last month, one night we became intimate, and I rubbed my penis (not the tip) against her vagina.. We have never had intercourse.. And I have never ejaculated on her..

Last month she got her regular period which is usually on 4th of every month.. but the next month, which is this month, she is 10 days late, and has still not got her period. Today is 13th June.

What I want to know is.. is there a chance of her being pregnant?
Is it possible to get pregnant even after you get your regular period? Or is it just a coincidence that her period is delayed this month.. She is regular with her periods since past 5-6 months.. She travelled a lot in this month.. and is still continuously working on her projects...
Please let us know as soon as possible.. becoz we are very tensed.. and we both can't concentrate on anything.. She is absolutely refusing to take a pregnancy test.. We are very tensed.. Please let us know..
Thank you.

Why is she refusing to take a pregnancy test?

Anytime the penis gets near the vaginal opening, there's always a chance that even a slight amount of pre-ejaculate fluid could enter and possibly cause pregnancy.

Whlle very slight there can always be a "chance" but then there are many reasons for late periods

Only way to know is if you get a test. Why stress yourselves out even more? Even if it does turn up positive, you'll be that much more prepared for it.

Also... her hesitation to getting a test concerns me. There's no way to ask this question nicely - are you sure you're the only one being intimate with her?

Sorry if I gave you something else to worry about. You deserve to know, though.

~ Tee

You say you didn't ejaculate but there is the possibility of pre ejacualte and that can cause pregnancy.

Is she pregnant? Unlikely, especially since she did have a normal period after this episode. Am I 100% sure? No.

It sounds to me like the stress of all of this is causing a delay in her period.

Get a pregnancy test, they're cheap and it's really the only way to know for sure. It's very possible that once it comes back negative she'll relax enough that her period will come.

This is where I give you a lecture. Why are you messing around if you're not ready to have kids? If you want to play in this particular way why not wear a condom just to be on the safe side?

Good luck.

Thanks everyone..
There are good news..
Thank God!
My finacee got her period yesterday.. 9 days late..
But it was different.. It was thick like skin.. and dark colour..
And she usually bleeds a lot in the first three days.. but today is the first and she has bleeded only little, as if it was the fourth or fifth day of her cycle..
Hope there is nothing to worry..
Thanks...

She maybe pregnant. She should take two pregnncy test to see if she is. If both of the test comes out positive she really needs to see an OB/GYN or if one of the test came out positive and the other one negative she still needs to see an OB/GYN. But if both of the test comes out negative she is not pregnant (but make an appt. with her primary DR.). ----- Good luck

She maybe pregnant. She should take two pregnncy test to see if she is. If both of the test comes out positive she really needs to see an OB/GYN or if one of the test came out positive and the other one negative she still needs to see an OB/GYN. But if both of the test comes out negative she is not pregnant (but make an appt. with her primary DR.). ----- Good luck

First, this thread was written in 2009, 4 years ago. Second, if you read all the posts you'd see that the OP (original poster) stated that his girlfriend got her period, and is not pregnant.

It's important to check dates before posting, and to read all the posts in the thread before responding.

Thank you.