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jojobaybee
Jun 11, 2009, 08:48 AM
In the past we have had a lot of trouble with my grandparents but the last 3yrs have been okish I guess, but I have not seen them for 6weks now and I am realli angry. I no why ot is because they don't except my father why?? I have no idea, I want to ring them up and ask why but why should I bother if they don't with there daughter and me there grandchild, I miss them so much although on a ways I feel hate as well. Why is my life always ruined by sum1 slefish people. What shall I do any answers please xx:mad:

LearningAsIGo
Jun 11, 2009, 09:52 AM
I can understand why it'd be frustrating, but I think its best if you leave the adults to deal with their own problems. They may be wrong, but there is no reason to get involved in any "fights" they may have

Why don't you call them and ask if you can come for a visit? Even if there are problems between them and your parents, that doesn't mean they can't spend time with you. Maybe they haven't realized how much you miss them or how angry you are. I know they don't want to hurt your feelings... sometimes adults just need a reminder. ;)

jojobaybee
Jun 11, 2009, 10:07 AM
Thank you for your help and I will considerate it. But my grandparents do not listen and do not realli about others just there own feelings and its hard to tell them th truth because I don't want to make it worse. I don't get it though. :confused: