I would like to know if my ex boyfriend who is not the father of my son has any rights to my son? I live in South Carolina and I do know the laws there. I have been the only one who has worked and buying everything for my son.

No, of course he doesn't, just like you cannot go after him for child support for your son.

He doesn't have the right to see him it is up to you. But remmeber, when you were together I'm sure your boyfriend bonded with your son. And while I'm not sure how old your son is or how long you were together, it COULD be harsh on your son to be cut off (depending on his age) and no matter how old your son is it WILL be hard on your ex.

If your relationship was healthy and non abusive and you simply ended on good terms because it just wasn't working, I would suggest considering letting them continue their relationship.


I'm NOT suggesting this if your ex was abusive to you or him or if you left because of any kind of violence (physical or not)

I was in a relationship with a girl years ago. When we first started dating, her son was 6 months old. I fell in love with him and raised him as my own. We moved in together and stayed that way for three years. Well, she and I grew apart, and decided mutually to split. The hardest part was how little "Buddy" took it. He cried every time I had to leave ( me too). His mother knew it was in everyone's best interest to "ween" him off me over a period. It's been 15 years and I still run into him in town and hug his neck. I will ALWAYS remember the special time we had together. Please, if the guy was decent and loving, consider them both. GOD bless you all.

While I don't disagree with the other posters, there may be circumstances where he would have rights. For example, if he signed an acknowledgement of paternity or is listed on the birth certificate. If he has acted as the father in every sense, he might be able to be declared the legal father.

It all depends on where you live and what his relationship was.

P.S. I moved this from the Children's forum since it's a legal question. Future responses need to deal with the legal aspects of this question.