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Lacey18
Jun 8, 2009, 01:28 AM
So I just had sex for the first time about 5months ago. Biggest mistake of my life the guy was a total jerk... he just used me. I had unprotected sex... and I regret it horribly. I just got a sign that I have genital warts. Scariest thing in the world. I am scared to death to tell my Mom& my Doctor. I'm self conscious about my body already I mean now it's to the extreme. I want help and I want the outbreak to go away but... I'm scared I don't know what to do. I don't know if the warts will go away. I am ashamed of what I did :( I am in love with the most amazing guy and I want things to get sexual but the outbreaks make me so self conious and it makes it hard to do anything... I just need someone to talk to. I don't know what to do.
Help?

J_9
Jun 8, 2009, 01:38 AM
You can go to planned parenthood or your local health department to get this checked out and treated.

Bonita--
Jun 8, 2009, 01:56 AM
You need to go to your doctor to get treated. If you decide to have sex with your current boyfriend it's best that you use a condom whether you're having an outbreak or not, because I'm sure you do not want to infect him. It's unfortunate but these things happen. When I was 16 I became infected with HPV by having sex with my ex-boyfriend, who at the time was cheating on me and I wasn't aware of it. I ended up having an abnormal pap and had to be treated for mild dysplasia, and I am still dealing with it now. It's a hard situation and I understand that you are scared but you have to learn to accept and deal with it. But please go to your doctor so you can be properly treated. Sometimes they can freeze off the warts and they will never return, but you will have to go to your doctor and talk to him/her about it. Goodluck.

danielnoahsmommy
Jun 8, 2009, 03:26 AM
With this hpv it is very important to be treated. It can lead to cervical cancer. Please go to your obgyn