jennyb619
Jun 5, 2009, 02:32 PM
I have been with my fiancé for 1 1/2 and he has a son who is 2 yrs old soon to be 3. He's having problems with his ex (son's mother) who only let him see his child on her clock. For instance if it's a weekend and she need someone to watch after him while she goes out to the club or if she needs someone to look after him while she work. Isn't fair I know. He's looking to get some kind of visitation where he can pick him up on his days off or on the holiday or whenever and keep him overnight or for more than one day. She always raises hell when he ask to get him to take him different places. I'm a mother myself with a young boy and I believe boys need a good father figure in their lives and he is a great father figure. He buy him anything and everything he needs and has been doing so since his birth. He's there at his doctor visits when he's been sick. He's had pneumonia 3 times in this year I've been with him, under his mother's care. Does anyone have any solutions for him to get these rights as far as him being able to get him and keeping him for more than one day and being able to get him on his days off, he doesn't have a set work schedule. She doesn't keep their son her mother keeps him while she work or while she's out hanging or something. The messed up thing is she'll take the 2 yr old to my fiancés mother house, without my fiancé knowing, and will leave him there while she go about her business for the night, and won't tell him anything about it. He has to hear it from his mother. As you can see we are in dire need here and would like some kind of solution. He would love to have custody of him but the court fee I hear are ridiculous. I love his son like he's my own and he has an attachment to me as well so we need help