I don't want to go to my fathers, but my mom is making me go. I can kind of understand, it being her anniversary and all. My father just doesn't understand me

It's a tough situation, but yeah... you have to go. I don't know if your parents have some sort of custody agreement, but if they do and they both don't comply with it they could get in a lot of legal trouble.

You will find as you get older, there are many many things that you don't want to do but you have to. Its part of being responsible.

My advice would be to give your mom her time and try to make the most of the time at your dads. After her anniversary, speak with her about your lack of desire to go to your dads.

It might not help, but you also may find that if you speak to adults like an adult, you get better results.