delraymojo
Jun 2, 2009, 01:27 PM
I just want to fix things between us. My relationship with my ex girlfriend has always been a roller coaster ride, and it's been my fault. I get upset really easily, and when I get upset I just stop thinking logically. There have been so many instances where I just break up with her and she ends up basically begging for me to get back together with her.
Well, my girlfriend and I just got into one of our biggest fights before moving out of college for the summer - we're both going to be seniors next year. About three weeks into the summer, she gives me a call telling me that she's been doing some thinking and that we should break up. We've been going out for two years and I know that she is the one for me. I'm the definition of a deusche, and I've always been flirty with other girls and just enjoy being the center of attention. And - I know this sounds sadistic - I sort of enjoyed making her worry that at any moment I can just break up with her and go for somebody else.
Now that the tables have turned, I'm absolutely devastated. For the first time in my life, I absolutely balled my eyes out for hours. It's been two days since the break up and I've probably had a total of 1 hour of sleep. I can't go on like this, and I can't keep myself from calling her at night.
Last night, I called her again and asked her if there was somebody else, and she said there wasn't. But I kept asking her, and she finally said that she is attracted to someone else, but isn't even sure if she wants to act on it. I don't know what to do. Yesterday, I wrote her a letter and she gave me a reply. It seems like I can't do anything about her anymore.
She's not the type of person who wouldn't just lose feelings for me - I've lived with her for two years and I know this. If there's any way I can get her back, I need to know.
Well, my girlfriend and I just got into one of our biggest fights before moving out of college for the summer - we're both going to be seniors next year. About three weeks into the summer, she gives me a call telling me that she's been doing some thinking and that we should break up. We've been going out for two years and I know that she is the one for me. I'm the definition of a deusche, and I've always been flirty with other girls and just enjoy being the center of attention. And - I know this sounds sadistic - I sort of enjoyed making her worry that at any moment I can just break up with her and go for somebody else.
Now that the tables have turned, I'm absolutely devastated. For the first time in my life, I absolutely balled my eyes out for hours. It's been two days since the break up and I've probably had a total of 1 hour of sleep. I can't go on like this, and I can't keep myself from calling her at night.
Last night, I called her again and asked her if there was somebody else, and she said there wasn't. But I kept asking her, and she finally said that she is attracted to someone else, but isn't even sure if she wants to act on it. I don't know what to do. Yesterday, I wrote her a letter and she gave me a reply. It seems like I can't do anything about her anymore.
She's not the type of person who wouldn't just lose feelings for me - I've lived with her for two years and I know this. If there's any way I can get her back, I need to know.