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funsized818
Jun 2, 2009, 12:48 AM
Okay well there's this guy
I was with him for like 3 weeks,
Yes I know that's a little bit ,
But I brokeup with him because we would hangout everyday but
Most of the time we were quiet:( we were not talkative &
I'm very shy with him. . I still like him and he still likes me

What should I do?

Please help!

justcurious55
Jun 2, 2009, 10:19 AM
Sweetheart, if you can figure out how to find something to talk about when you're with this guy, you're probably not ready for dating. How hold are you?

tai18
Jun 4, 2009, 12:23 AM
I wouldn't have broken up with him . I think you two are nervous cause you really like each other and you aren't use to each other yet you JUST began dating take it slow and give it time=) maybe ask him you guys can date again

AManWithNoName
Jun 4, 2009, 11:39 AM
You just don't want to mess up, understandable, completley understandable
But, sometimes in life, you just got to go out on a whim, and start a subjsct

iLy541
Jun 4, 2009, 12:54 PM
You should have gotten to know him first before you started going out with him. They say a relationship is a friendship on fire. You guys have to rekindle that friendship part. If you find yourself in a situtation where your with a guy and no conversation emerges then ask questions. Play any sports? Wahts your ethinic backround? Have you seen this movie? Have you ever_____? make the conversation interesting. Good Luck and I hope everything goes great. ;)

biversen
Jun 4, 2009, 07:49 PM
I would work on being friends first. Being friends first is best because you can then get over the akward stage of not knowing what to talk about. Then once you've mastered being friends, then you can see where that leads to.