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NeNe112
Jun 1, 2009, 06:08 PM
Hi, I wrote a letter to a girl. It explains what I'm feeling at the moment. We are really good friends and we both like each other. In the letter I am really detail and eveything. I want to give the letter to her, but I'm afraid of what she'll think abou it. What do you guys think of the letter. The letter is kind of long, but please read it fully and help me out! Thanks

Here is the letter:

Sometimes I start to think about the past and how awesome it was. How much time we spend together. All that we would talk about. Everything that would go on between us. Then I look at the present time and I wonder. And as I wonder on, I start to fear something. I fear what will become of us. How our friendship will probably suffer, and that's something I cannot let happen. But I don't know what to do. We barely talk anymore, and I feel that I can't ask you anything because I'm worried what you'll say. I try to make things still go as smoothly as possible, but I feel that I'm the only one trying. Have you ever wondered why I keep sending you all those random e-mail? Its because I want to keep some sort of communication with you. That way not everything will be lost, you know? But the thing is, you don't write back. You don't let me know how things really are with you. And although I try and I try and I keep sending e-mail, I feel that I'm doing all that in vain. I feel that you do not care anymore or something. There is a two way street in a communication, but I only see myself going, but no one meeting me half way. Just so you know, I haven't stopped feeling the way I do about you. In no way, shape, or form. What I do feel is a sense of separation. Like we have grown apart, yet we are still together. Like we don't see each other anymore, yet we see each other in a weekly basis. Its like you're not even there yet you are at the same time. And it saddens me to feel that way. It saddens me to see you and not be able to give you a hug, or to go to you and just talk until either of us has to go. Or to be able to look at those beautiful eyes of yours for more than five seconds. I sometimes feel like a stranger. Like we don't know each other. Like nothing had ever happened. Like we never really met. And I don't like feeling that. I wish that I could just go up to you and forget everything that had happened this past month and just to hang out with you like we used to. I wish that I can look you in your eyes like I used to, and see you blush and look away embarrassed. I wish I can hear your sweet voice at night like I used to, and fall asleep thinking about you. Don't get me wrong, I could still fall asleep thinking about you, but I sometimes choose not to. The reason why, is because its sometimes easier to sort of go through this, and think about you less. Although that is really hard too, as I am constantly thinking about you. About you smile, your laugh, you voice. I think about us just doing what we used to. Talk, hang around, talk some more, and in the special events, hold each other's hands. I think about you, and I can't help but smile. I can't help myself to not laugh. Because I have so many good memories with you. Yet there are other times when I think about you, and I get kind of sad. Because a lot of things have changed in such a short time. A lot of think have stopped very quickly. And that was very suddenly. I knew something's were supposed to have changed, yes, but not to this extent. Not to the extent that we sometimes don't even say goodbye to one another. Not to the extent that when I see you, I feel rather uncertain of what to do, than what I used to feel before, which I felt so happy every time I saw you. Don't get me wrong, I still feel excited when I see you, its kind of different now. I really hope that this is temporary. Because I really fear the byproduct of what this will cause. And I really do not want to experience that. I wish that I could tell you all this and so much more in person, but when can I do it? Every time that we are talking, its never enough time to exchange words other than "Hey, how are you?". You know what I mean? I also miss knowing what goes through your mind. You know how I'm always asking you what you are thinking? Because I love knowing what is going on in your mind. I like knowing you thoughts, and wondering if by any struck of luck, that you were thinking about... me. And every time that you were, you don't know how happy that makes me inside. How I then start to think about you and what I must had to do in other to have met you. How our lives where intertwined in the most oddest, unique, yet awesomest of ways. And then I think what would have happened, if we never had met. How I would have been. How you would have been. And then I thank God that He gave us the opportunity to meet each other. For I truly never in my life have met anyone like you. Anyone who is so... you. So beautiful in the outside as you are on the inside. Someone who is smart and actually knows what I'm talking about. Someone who has a different sense of humor that coincidentially matches with mine perfectly. Someone who's heart is made of solid gold. Someone who will go out of her way to help some else without a second thought. Someone who is so passionated about God and they we she talks about Him. Its quite inspiring to tell you the truth. Someone who you can't help yourself and must look at and think, "wow... she is something special". And you truly are. You have so many qualities that make you so unique, so awesome, so you. That if I had the chance to change anything about you, I wouldn't even dare to change a hair off you. For I like you just the way God made you.


This is probably a lot to take in in such a short time, and I do apologize. I just wanted to let you know how I'm feeling. And like I said before, nothing has changed in the way I feel about you. Also, I don't expect you to respond to this, or to mention this when we see each other, unless you want to. This is more so that you know what I'm thinking about. Hope that it doesn't change anything.

Well take care and God bless you.

NeNe112
Jun 1, 2009, 07:31 PM
Please someone answer my question! I know its long but please!!

Fr_Chuck
Jun 1, 2009, 07:42 PM
I read the first ilne,

You see her and talk to her, call her and talk to her.

If you want to make a point, do it personally

NeNe112
Jun 1, 2009, 07:43 PM
Wow... that really didn't help... if u read the whole thing, you would have know that I can't talk to her...

Wondergirl
Jun 1, 2009, 07:52 PM
You don't believe in paragraphs, do you.

Do not send it to her.

NeNe112
Jun 1, 2009, 07:54 PM
Care to explain? I really do not know what you mean...

Wondergirl
Jun 1, 2009, 07:57 PM
You said in the beginning, before the letter, that you both like each other. Why the letter? Why can't you talk to her? The letter doesn't help your cause if you want to get closer to her.

Wondergirl
Jun 1, 2009, 07:58 PM
care to explain? i really do not know what you mean...
Explain paragraphs? The letter is horribly dense and wordy and hard to read.

magpie0045
Jun 1, 2009, 08:19 PM
Okay. To be honest, You almost had me to tears. I think you should give it to her. If she truly feels the same way she'll understand. I just thought it was written from the heart. It shows you how love goes but not just love, friendship, an honest bond. I feel like I'm intruding by telling you all of these things. But I just have to say, if a boy like you wrote me a note like that I would take it to heart. I would re-read it like ten times. Memorize the words even. I'm curious though, what changed all of a sudden? You were close friends always hanging out and now you barely speak? There has to be something behind that. If you don't mind telling me. Of course, I'm not going to beat it out of you. I really enjoyed reading it. Please give it to her. Because no matter what, she'll always know how you feel about her. And if she ever needs you, she'll know where to find you with arms wide open. Thank you.

</3 Maggie

Fr_Chuck
Jun 2, 2009, 03:15 AM
Ok, so how old are you 12 perhaps, at 12 you pass notes and ask their friends if they "love" you and often change girlfriends as often as socks.

So if you ar 12, what the heck give her the note, if you are a more grown up teen, no you don't pass notes, you actually talk to them,

If you can't talk to them, well then you have no reason telling them the things in the letter.

And to be honest the letter is so hard to read it is likely the person getting it, will not read it either

shazamataz
Jun 2, 2009, 04:19 AM
I agree and disagree with everyone...

My partner writes me little notes occasionally...

Note how I said "little" though

When he goes away for work I often find a 2 or 3 line note telling me he loves me and will miss me and (without sounding too sappy) it's a nice comfort to keep it by my bed when I am alone.

To be honest with your letter, even if that was intended for me it is a pretty hard read!