OK, well I'm going to try to make this short and to the point.

I dated this guy my freshman yr of high school and we were together for a little over a year, he took my virginity and well needless to say he was the love of my life. In all these years (over 10) I have always thought about him. I have since been marreid and have a child and as of about 2 months ago we got back in touch. Oh I guess I forgot, I am going through a divorce right now and have been since Dec 08.

My question is, what does this mean?? We had ran into each other about 2-3 times over those years before I was married and obviously the flame was still there. I feel like I am back in high school with him. We both have children and are looking for some stability in our lives and I just think that, is one of those meant-to-be things?? Maybe I'm wrong

I got back together with my high school sweetheart, didn't work out any better the second time around. I learned that I will always love him and he will always be a huge part of my life. I am thankful for our time and a second chance.

We can not determine your future, if we could tell you what the future holds, we all may have made some different choices for ourselves.

Good luck to you.

Well I gues you are right, I keep telling myself that we split for a reason, but tthen again we were kids and I can see the changes in him. The whole package looks great!!

Well if your both in a position to take another chance at it then I say go for it. Why not. If it doesn't work then at least you won't sit back and wonder "what if" down the road. Or it will work and you will find happiness again.

well i gues you are right, i keep telling myself that we split for a reason, but tthen again we were kids and i can see the changes in him. the whole package looks great!!!!!

So you keep moving forward... no one can predict the future... enjoy life.

I think that's where I'm leading... but we will see what happenes.

Thanks to the both of you... it is always nice to get an outsiders opinion.!

It sounds like the two of you have unfinished business to attend to. My advise is this; try it. Don't jump in like you're Alee and Noah from the Notebook, but try out the water. See if there is potential there. Don't plan out the rest of your life with this guy but spend some time with him and ask yourself "what are the positives of this relationship" and "{what are the negatives".. When you figure this out, ask yourself if this person is worth the negatives, if you decide they are.. . Dive in! Fall in love. Enjoy love for what it is and do not live in fear! God bless my dear :)


Love, Patsy

It sounds like the two of you have unfinished buisness to attend to. My advise is this; try it. Don't jump in like you're Alee and Noah from the Notebook, but try out the water. See if there is potential there. Don't plan out the rest of your life with this guy but spend some time with him and ask yourself "what are the positives of this relationship" and "{what are the negatives".. When you figure this out, ask yourself if this person is worth the negatives, if you decide they are. . . dive in! Fall in love. Enjoy love for what it is and do not live in fear! God bless my dear :)


Love, Patsy

Thank you so very much