Okay.. I am 15 years old in high school and my boyfriend is 17 going on 18 in June he's in 12th graduating this year. So we met in school about 6 months ago kind of weird because I never paid any attention to him.Short story.. he is going to college and I am not worried but I am going to be kind of empty inside because I won't see him on the regular basis. We have talked about this so many times. We have a great bond and communication. He is a really honest guy and tells me when he is doing wrong but it never got to that point so that's good :] well he is going to a program for college in July 4 so I am going to be a little bit sad then he comes back on aug 5 which I am happy about.. then of course sept back. I am not worried about him cheating and etc I know how things work he said "if I do anything wrong like mess around with others i will tell you" I respect that and all I will be a little bit upset but I will forgive because I love him. I am trying to be mature about things. He says he loves me which I really believe because he never really fell in love before. His college isn't that far it's Albany college.he had talked to me about how his future wants to look like with me and I really believe it can happen. But we cannot tell the future but if we do continue to trust each other and etc it will happen. I think he will be my future husband later on in life and we live really close together, his family met me and mines also which is great. He ha told me he will visit me during breaks , etc. But when he leaves I am going to cry It's for happiness and a bit sad because I want him to have a bright future and to have it with me and I believe he is going to do right. I feel things are possiable so I am just going to focus in school next school year and try not to think hard about him and what he is doing because most girls get so paranoid about weither they are cheating or not and that's what prevents arguments and if you love that person you have to trust them. But one question is this going to work properly? lol

Like you said, no one can see the future. Even though the age gap between you two isn't that big, it is big enough that you guys are going to be at totally different places in your lives for a while. That can put a lot of tension into a relationship. But if you guys can communicate and work through things yeah, its all possible. But just realize it might be hard (it sounds like you already know that though)

Yer I agree it seems that the need for you to know might cloud how you think but if you relise how hard its going to be because4 of that age gap the I say trust him as you say if you love someone trust them but at 15 you seem a little young for the whole I love you thing

yer i agree it seems that the need for you to know might cloud how you think but if you relise how hard its going to be because4 of that age gap the i say trust him as you say if you love someone trust them but at 15 you seem a little young for the whole i love you thingI Think that no one is too young to love.. love to mean is not just a word it's something more to it:rolleyes: