Hi every one!
Ive met a guy&a friend 2007 but not at the same month a friend we used to go to same church and we started being friend then the friend know this guy because they from the same place and the boyfriend of a friend is this guy friend,but this guy became a friend with my friend the day we started dating so the relationship went fine even December 2007 visited the friend and the boyfriend but 2008 January I didn't have a place to stay for some time and my boyfriend said we must stay with him so the problem started wee foght lot of time and my boyfriend bouhgt a car and things became worse but the trick was I loved him vey much and fell sick and went to c the doc &he told me I'm pregnant &i told my boyfriend that bt I didn't tell my friend by the time goes on I decided to do an arbotion because I wasn't ready for the baby which I regret now anyway wwe kept on fighting with my boy friend and my friend would tell me that my boyfriend was talking for the long time oe the phone so ill act on that il do anything that my friend tell me to do and the abortion thing I kept it as a secrete as no 1 knws about it even know and I told my boyfriend that that doc made a mistake I hve a pms so he didn't say anything we kept on not knwing that my boyfriend told my friend that I'm pregnant &my friend told evry1 that &that came to my ears wrong but my friend did appologiesd to me and this yr we wer moving out of the flat and we decided not to stay together anyway my boyfriend slept with a girl in our bed I was out with my other friend and my friend called me &told me that but he didn't see him he just heard the voices and saw a condom when I asked my boyfriend that he denied it wel and I saw a used condom &i was so hurt and my boyfriend thngs became very tense but we did have sex &my friend told me that she knows everything about my boyfriend but she won't tell me anything couse she doesn't want us to fight well I kept queit so my boyfriend stopped calling me but I kept calling him my friend suggested that we must go and see sangoma so I went the sangoma told me that the are people who are jouelus about and they put umuthi on me to have bad luck on guys because I'm too beautifil so my boyfriend deleted me on his Facebook and didn't call me and now he is very close with my friend I decuded not be friend this ny friend anymoer because she stole my dairy and call people telling them about the abuse I had 2 yrs back and told me that the sangoma told her I'm the one who distroy her relationship with her boyfriend,because her boyfriend didn't have time for her and he's a playboy,and I told my mum because this thing hurt me and my mum told her she is the one who distroy my relationship because she is jeolus of us, now I get over this guy because he is 1bf my mum knew and the1 to stay with so this hurt me cause he didn't even said to me why he I not calling me anymore when I ask him he just say can he please not answer that and I ask some of uor friends to ask him &they say he doesn't answer them and my friend told me to move on when I ask her why cause she knows how I love the guy and she told she sees the way things are and I never said such a thing to her cuase I know she loves her boyfriend even if he dast hve time for her now I keep on buzzing my boyfriend with private number to hear his voice I'm struggling p. help me guys

I'm sorry... I tried to read your post. But you kind of lost me at the: friend of a guy. The boyfriend of a friend of a friend...

I think that if you edit your post, and use paragraphs. and use punctuation... you might get more answers because it will be easier to read!

Thank you!

Best I could get, she lost her boyfriend, and someone stole her diary, And she keeps stalking the boyfriend calling him up from other phones to hear his voice.

Put the phone down, and don't contract him for a few weeks or a month or two, in three months you will be feeling a lot better.