I need help, I have this great guy friend that been there for me during break ups, family problems, and anything you can name it! But I feel like I I'm starting to catch feelings for him, and we kind of play around lot it could even be called flirting. I don't think I look at him in a sexually way , I just can't see that. But I do look at him as a great boyfriend and someone I can have fun with. My only problem is I don't know if I should make the move because I don't want ot ruin our frindship?Should I go for it?What should I do?

Remember, friends are forever. This guy has been there for you on many occasions, you name it, he's been there for you.

If you start something more then a friendship, just keep in mind that if things go sour, it might never be the same like it is now.


Ultimately, this is your decision. You should talk to him before doing anything about it. If he's such a good guy, he'll understand and express whatever you guys have with each other. Good luck.

Joke with him about it to test the waters. Some friends make good couples and it can even last or it wouldn't. The only question is if things don't work out will you be able to remain friends with him?

Also, if you do express your feelings for him will you be able to carry on a friendship with him after he turned you down?

Sounds like one of those... nice guys finish last things. So it's near the end so he can finally finish?

I suggest you take it slow, because you don't want to mess up the friendship. Talk to him more to see if your feelings develop more or if it's just a harmless crush developed through constant exposure.