dan_246
May 26, 2009, 03:54 AM
Hi guys, I am new to this forum and thought I would seek some meaningful advice in you all.
I was going out with a girl for 8 months and we split up over 3 months ago and haven't seen each other for over a month and the contact between us has been minimal.
However, she is in a relationship with someone else and I am now seeing someone different. Will this complicate things?
It took me so long to get over my ex girlfriend but now I feel like I am over here I see meeting her as a challenge.
We were very close but we split up because of lack of trust and constant arguments.
To be honest, I think she still has feelings for me. In her text message she conveyed that she is looking forward to seeing me.
Anyway I am seeking advice because I don't want to fall into the trap of getting too close to her again. We have both admitted that we don't work as a couple so I really don't want to be feeling like that. Any ideas on how I can prevent myself from effectivelly falling into this trap?
How do you guys think I should play this?
I am meant to be meeting her on Saturday; last time she didn't show up, but when I bumped into her on a car park she was very friendly and we didn't mention the relationship and the outcomes etc.
Any advice would be beneficial on how I should tackle this.
Cheers
Dan
I was going out with a girl for 8 months and we split up over 3 months ago and haven't seen each other for over a month and the contact between us has been minimal.
However, she is in a relationship with someone else and I am now seeing someone different. Will this complicate things?
It took me so long to get over my ex girlfriend but now I feel like I am over here I see meeting her as a challenge.
We were very close but we split up because of lack of trust and constant arguments.
To be honest, I think she still has feelings for me. In her text message she conveyed that she is looking forward to seeing me.
Anyway I am seeking advice because I don't want to fall into the trap of getting too close to her again. We have both admitted that we don't work as a couple so I really don't want to be feeling like that. Any ideas on how I can prevent myself from effectivelly falling into this trap?
How do you guys think I should play this?
I am meant to be meeting her on Saturday; last time she didn't show up, but when I bumped into her on a car park she was very friendly and we didn't mention the relationship and the outcomes etc.
Any advice would be beneficial on how I should tackle this.
Cheers
Dan