My cousin has been going back and forth with his girfriend for years. Last week she yelled at his mom.She was very disrespectfull to my aunt. My cousin was such a nice and sweet guy. But lately He has changed a lot. This is all due to his girlfriend.he is constantly nervous all the time. How can my family convince my cousin to move on with his life before this woman ruins him even more..

You can't. Have you ever been in love? You know that little world that just you and that other person are in? Yeah, it's impenetrable.

What do you mean he's changing? Is he doing things that are illegal or unhealthy or immoral? How's he changed?

Why did she yell at his Mom? What was the situation?

FIrst off, it's a shame that he allowed her to start changing him. But you have to remember its his life and there HIS choises. For some odd reason he's comfterble with wheres he's at. Other wise he would have left her already. All you can do for him is tell him what you see and your OPINION. But its up to him to step up and realize the impact she's had. If he hasn't seen the negetivity of it already, he musnt be that miserable. Remmber its easier to see things from outside of the box, but right now he's inside and is blind. Everything happens for a reason, its his experience, let him have it.

He needs to learn to change on his own. Your family can express their concerns to him, but if he doesn't want to change himself, there's nothing you can do.