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lexguevara91
May 24, 2009, 01:42 PM
Hey I'm alex
Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost to years on August 24 09. But sadly he is leaving after summer for Texas tech university which is about 8 hrs maybe 7hrs away from where I'm going to school (I'll be a senior next year). I don't know what to do. Me and him hang out literally every single day. How am I supposed to not miss him next year?
I don't know if I can trust him either he could be going to parties and talking to girls he could maybe even cheat on me. I don't know what to do I need help!:(

ajGambino
May 24, 2009, 01:48 PM
There's nothing you can do but keep trust in your relationship. If you let this get to you, doubts will wander your mind and eventually start to create problems.

If you have no reason to distrust him, now is definitely not a good time to start. Being away from him after spending time with him daily for two years can be difficult, you just have to talk to him and work through it.

In the end, all you need to do is talk to him. It can make you feel a lot better, letting him know your feelings towards this new turn of events. Just communicate with him, that's the key to any type of relationship, especially long distance.

talaniman
May 24, 2009, 01:52 PM
Long Distance Relationship Advice | The Frisky (http://www.thefrisky.com/post/246-handle-this-seven-ways-to-survive-a-long-distance-relationship/?cnn=yes)

Surviving a Long-Distance Relationship (http://www.aish.com/dating/wisdom/Surviving_a_Long-Distance_Relationship.asp)

Maybe these sites will help.

none12345
May 24, 2009, 02:33 PM
If you love him, you should be able to trust him.

If you can't trust him, I suggest you leave.

I wish
May 24, 2009, 02:58 PM
Long distance relationships take a lot of work and constant communication from both people involved. Will he be coming back during the holidays to see his family?

You won't really know until you try. I'd say, give it a chance and see how it goes. Go with the flow...