The farmer and mail order bride can't get married because she doesn't speak English and they think she might be a spy. The farmer's friends abandon him because the couple cohabitate anyway. Does anyone remember the name of this move, I keep thinking Painted House but that's not it.

Possibly, "2 Brothers & a Bride (aka Foreign Affair)"

2 Brothers & a Bride > Overview - AllMovie (http://www.allmovie.com/work/a-foreign-affair-280302)

Thanks but that's not it, the movie continues on with the farmer helping save his best friends farm at an auction, bidding but not really having the money. Then all of the neighbors make up the difference.

Sweet Land (2005) (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0428038/)

Thanks Quinn

You're welcome.