Sdjosh
May 22, 2009, 07:59 AM
I just feel like I am worn out all the time. I'm so tired. My emotions are up and down and I am starting to affect my fiancée. Lately, I have been getting these little episodes where my heart beats really fast.
Lately, everything in my life has been moving so fast. My job keeps me on travel for months at a time... I'm getting married in 17 days and we are doing all the plans... my fiancée is in paramedic school and has so much stress... we have a 3 year old. We both have a pretty busy life and it seems like we barely have time for each other. She is the relaxed one who is confident that everything will be fine. I'm the uptight one... the neat freak... the one who has over the top expectations...
I try to be a good man. I know how hard she is working in school trying to learn some really intense things. So I take care of the house... and our son. She appreciates it too... But lately I have been messing up. I get all needy and have stupid expectations that are not even realistic and I end up opening my mouth. I know I am just pushing her away.
I feel so stupid and ashamed. I should know better... I'm 32 years old. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I'm messing it up.
Lately, everything in my life has been moving so fast. My job keeps me on travel for months at a time... I'm getting married in 17 days and we are doing all the plans... my fiancée is in paramedic school and has so much stress... we have a 3 year old. We both have a pretty busy life and it seems like we barely have time for each other. She is the relaxed one who is confident that everything will be fine. I'm the uptight one... the neat freak... the one who has over the top expectations...
I try to be a good man. I know how hard she is working in school trying to learn some really intense things. So I take care of the house... and our son. She appreciates it too... But lately I have been messing up. I get all needy and have stupid expectations that are not even realistic and I end up opening my mouth. I know I am just pushing her away.
I feel so stupid and ashamed. I should know better... I'm 32 years old. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I'm messing it up.