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st side singer
May 22, 2009, 12:22 AM
Well I have this friend right (lets call him Fred)and were really close right and he tells me all his problems and he told me who he likes! OK and then yesterday in class he came and sat next to me and then because it computer work I'm always using the mouse and he kept touching my hand softly and then sometimes hitting it and then just touching my hand turned into holding it and then he started moving closer to me and he started resting his head on my shoulder and this was still while he was holding my hand and then he asked me do I like anyone and I told him I don't know I'm really confused right now and then he started to hug me and the whole time his leg was right next to mine and rubbing it
I'm so confused and he was staring at me the whole time trying to get my attention. I was really shocked that he was doing that I don't understand does this mean he's starting to like me or was it just something I'm seeing and thinking that its more?? Please help the more advice the more ill understand

I wish
May 22, 2009, 07:03 AM
He definitely sounds interested in you.

This is how it goes, he moves close to you, do a little touching, you don't repulse, so he does a bit more. Every time he tries something and you get comfortable with it, he will try a bit more.

If you like him back, then it sounds like the beginning of a new relationship. But if you don't like him, then you better put a stop to it so that you don't lead him on.

I'm not sure why he's not upfront about his feeilngs for you though, but I guess actions speak louder than words. It's pretty obvious that he's interested in you.

nitelight198073
May 22, 2009, 07:05 AM
Well to me the signs say he likes you but be careful guys can be sneaky he may want to use you too, I suggest you ask him or wait and feel out the situation

joysjrny
May 22, 2009, 07:08 AM
The person that he told you he likes, does she like him, too? I have found in my experience is that sometimes men will try to get their ego lifted through another female. Do you think he has the makings of a player or is real? If he is for real then maybe the other person wasn't interested in him and in his off time has been thinking about you.