OK so I've been seeing my girlfriend for over two years now and we are totally in love with each other. But a few weeks ago was her junior prom and I got really drunk and yelled at her, which believe me is something I NEVER do, and she was mad at me for a few days, but eventually forgave me and things went back to normal. Last weekend was my senior prom, and we decided to go to the shore after for the weekend. We both decided not to drink and to just have a fun time doing stuff together. So we went to the boardwalk, had some dinner played games and enjoyed just being with each other. We get back to the hotel around 1am and lay in bed, she tells me she's tired and doesn't feel well so she falls asleep, but I'm not tired so I jump in the shower to relax myself and try to help me want to go to bed. When I get out my friends I was staying with say that there going to go to a house a few streets over where a bunch of our other friends were stay to hang out for a little while, so I decide to go, thinking she wounldnt mind and she was asleep so I didn't want to wake her up... we get to the house around 2am and didn't leave until 6am, my girlfriend woke up in the middle of the night, didn't know where I was and was FURIOUS at me, thinking I left her to go drink with my friends... she said she was considering a breakup, but yesterday told me she wasn't anymore but she was going to see how things go, kind of like our releationship was on a trial basis... ohh and yesterday she left for the shore with 3 of her close guy friends, which I'm not to happy about because she dated the one and admitted to once liking the other... I don't know what to ting, I mean is she still thinking break up? Should I worry about her cheating? Am I just being parinod? Please explain to me what to expect, I don't want to break up, and I don't think she wants to but I just want to hear what someone else has to say.

I just want to ask you this. If you didn't leave the hotel room and didn't get into the fight with her would you still be worried about her going to the shore with 3 of her guy friends?

It was probably a bad call on your part to go out that night. You were supposed to spend the weekend together, you should have been in bed with her. I can understand her being upset.

Going with her friends might be her trying to get some sort of "Revenge", or maybe she doesn't see anything wrong with it. But she probably knows exactly what she's doing if she openly told you she was attracted to one of them.

You are definitely in a rough patch here and need to be careful how you handle it. Leave her alone this weekend, if she does something with one of the other guys, that's her problem. When she comes back, you should talk to her about all these events, the yelling, the night when you weren't in bed, and her going out with 3 other guys.

I just want to ask you this. If you didn't leave the hotel room and didn't get into the fight with her would you still be worried about her going to the shore with 3 of her guy friends?

A little, I'm more worried about her leaving me when she gets back then I am about her cheating

It was probably a bad call on your part to go out that night. You were supposed to spend the weekend together, you should have been in bed with her. I can understand her being upset.

Going with her friends might be her trying to get some sort of "Revenge", or maybe she doesn't see anything wrong with it. But she probably knows exactly what she's doing if she openly told you she was attracted to one of them.

You are definitely in a rough patch here and need to be careful how you handle it. Leave her alone this weekend, if she does something with one of the other guys, that's her problem. When she comes back, you should talk to her about all these events, the yelling, the night when you weren't in bed, and her going out with 3 other guys.

She said were still together as of right now, but she's still upset so I kind of don't know what to expect you know

Don't bomb her with texts or calls this weekend let her cool off. Hopefully after she relaxes for the weekend the two of you can have a nice conversation on how she is feeling and what she wants to do. I don't think she will break up with you but you have to admit you messed up pretty badly by leaving her in a hotel by herself.

Don't bomb her with texts or calls this weekend let her cool off. Hopefully after she relaxes for the weekend the two of you can have a nice conversation on how she is feeling and what she wants to do. I don't think she will break up with you but you have to admit you messed up pretty badly by leaving her in a hotel by herself.

I agree, plus its my birthday this weekend and she feels terrible about not being here for it.. . any advice on how to not bomb her with the texts and calls, because I already feel myself starting to do that

i agree, plus its my birthday this weekend and she feels terrible about not being here for it. . .any advice on how to not bomb her with the texts and calls, because i already feel myself starting to do that

Go out and do your own thing! You have control over this, so just go enjoy yourself and don't worry about her.

Kc is right, live your life now. Don't worry if she's going to end it or not because you have no control over what she does. It sucks, and I wish it wasn't this way but sadly it is.

I know I'd be mad too if my boyfriend took off when I thought he was in for the night even not living together. I just hate that.
But her taking off with three guys I don't think she has room to be furious with you!

Did she plan the trip to the shore with the 3 guys before you snubbed her or after? Does she usually go out with these guys?

Regardless of what you have to concern yourself with there's little you can do at this point. Like all the above said, leave her be and hope it was just her being upset.

Like KC said you have to keep yourself busy. Grab some friends and go out. Are any concerts in your town this weekend. Anyone have a B-B-Q for the holiday. Just basically find something to do.

How old is you and this girl?

She is going to her JUNIOR PROM and your going out DRINKING so what are your ages because this will say a lot.

Also, you stated the two of you are very much in love but this so called relationship is lacking a lot.