Hantatee
May 20, 2009, 10:57 PM
So basically, I am young, 19 in 2 months and my parents still have financial control over my life.
My first year of college was the worst experience since high school, and those are not my fondest memories.
I have a medical condition with exacerbated anxiety and depression overlay, and all I am trying to do is be happy. I am trying to tranfer to Ohio to be with my boyfriend who I have shared a year's worth of a long distance relationship. It has not been fun, easy or pleasant. We as a couple have been through some dark times together and as individuals. It is only together we're full of hope and happiness.
To cut a long story short, my parents will not co-sign my loan so that I can go to the University (I am out-of state, so tuition is more than they can pay for)
I feel like a child, because they are controlling my happiness and my future that I have been working for, and also feel like an unestablished "adult".
I'm supposedly the bad guy in this scenario :( Please help. What would you do?
My first year of college was the worst experience since high school, and those are not my fondest memories.
I have a medical condition with exacerbated anxiety and depression overlay, and all I am trying to do is be happy. I am trying to tranfer to Ohio to be with my boyfriend who I have shared a year's worth of a long distance relationship. It has not been fun, easy or pleasant. We as a couple have been through some dark times together and as individuals. It is only together we're full of hope and happiness.
To cut a long story short, my parents will not co-sign my loan so that I can go to the University (I am out-of state, so tuition is more than they can pay for)
I feel like a child, because they are controlling my happiness and my future that I have been working for, and also feel like an unestablished "adult".
I'm supposedly the bad guy in this scenario :( Please help. What would you do?