so :rolleyes: i use to b a tomboy. but now that im getting older im in total cotrol of my girly side and changed. i really like hanging out with the guys but am a little shy and unsure how to take things right now. i havent had a lot of boyfriends and they have been jerks. how can i make some like me? :confused:

I think you need to just be yourself, and the right guy will end up coming to you. You should just have fun with friends. Especially if you have fallen in a pattern of dating jerks.. you need to date guys that don't hang out in the same kinds of crowds as the ex's

You should never alter your personality to make someone like you because then just being fake and will only lose yourself in the process.

You can make nor force someone to like you. This is a feeling that must come natural.

Also, I don't know your exact age but I once was a teenager and I know most of the guys around that age are jerks. At least the ones I were around when I was younger. Finding someone that wasn't was like finding a needle in the haysack.