h_leann_b
May 18, 2009, 03:28 PM
I have been on and off with my current boyfriend for about 2 years now. I am very happy with him and I love him very much. However, we were separated for about 4 months, and in this time I met someone online and we had been talking. We decided to meet (he lives 5 states away from me). He flew here and we had a really fun time. About a month later I went out to where he lives. At that time, I told him I had decided to get back with my ex to try to work things out, and that I wanted to still be friends.
Well since then he has it in his mind that it will someday work between us. I am not in love with him. I never was. I cared for him as a dear friend, but that is all. He agreed to just be friends but he still tells me he is depressed. And how I am perfect and he wants to marry me etc. I have been harsh with him, and told him he has NO CHANCE. I am not sure what to do. He told me he doesn't know what he would do if he lost me as a friend.
I have been very rarely talking to him; in hopes he will find someone else or get over me. I am not sure what to do. Any insight or thoughts? Thanks
Well since then he has it in his mind that it will someday work between us. I am not in love with him. I never was. I cared for him as a dear friend, but that is all. He agreed to just be friends but he still tells me he is depressed. And how I am perfect and he wants to marry me etc. I have been harsh with him, and told him he has NO CHANCE. I am not sure what to do. He told me he doesn't know what he would do if he lost me as a friend.
I have been very rarely talking to him; in hopes he will find someone else or get over me. I am not sure what to do. Any insight or thoughts? Thanks