leong82
May 17, 2009, 09:48 AM
I really need help with you gals out there. I am deeply in love with this girl for 5 years now but I never brave enough to tell her cause she has a boyfriend. She broke up last December and I really wanted to open my heart to her because after waiting for 5 years, I finally have a chance cause she is single. The problem is that I am confused whether she is loves me or just treats me like a friend.
We go out often with friends and sometimes alone. In a week we probably go out maybe 2 to 3 times. Just recently we went to the movies together alone. She know what I like to eat and do. She even orders the food I like to eat when I am with her. She does not smoke but would purposely accompany because I hate to smoke alone. I gave her flowers and cherries on her birthday but did not write who is the sender. She message me on the phone saying thank you. She later told me I was the first person on her mind. When we party she would often look at me as though to see if I am looking at her.
But the thing is, I also feel that I might just be her good friend. On weekends, she never messages me or call me. I am the one that is initiating it. Most of the time I am the one that ask her out. I know that is what a guy should do but if she loves me, she would ask me out too right? I have to admit she does ask me out for dinner sometimes. She knows that I like her cause our friends always tease us. When she is tired or stressed, I would really like to accompany her to make her feel better but she rather go home. I understand that but if she does have feelings for me, wouldn’t she want to release her stress with me?
I really do not want to lose her as a friend but at the same time, I really want to be her special one. Do you think she treats me more than a friend or likes me? What should I do to find out? I appreciate any help out there because this feeling is unbearable. Thanks
We go out often with friends and sometimes alone. In a week we probably go out maybe 2 to 3 times. Just recently we went to the movies together alone. She know what I like to eat and do. She even orders the food I like to eat when I am with her. She does not smoke but would purposely accompany because I hate to smoke alone. I gave her flowers and cherries on her birthday but did not write who is the sender. She message me on the phone saying thank you. She later told me I was the first person on her mind. When we party she would often look at me as though to see if I am looking at her.
But the thing is, I also feel that I might just be her good friend. On weekends, she never messages me or call me. I am the one that is initiating it. Most of the time I am the one that ask her out. I know that is what a guy should do but if she loves me, she would ask me out too right? I have to admit she does ask me out for dinner sometimes. She knows that I like her cause our friends always tease us. When she is tired or stressed, I would really like to accompany her to make her feel better but she rather go home. I understand that but if she does have feelings for me, wouldn’t she want to release her stress with me?
I really do not want to lose her as a friend but at the same time, I really want to be her special one. Do you think she treats me more than a friend or likes me? What should I do to find out? I appreciate any help out there because this feeling is unbearable. Thanks