Dear fellow readers. In my past questions I tell all about my true love jake. I have liked him for three years and ill be 17 in like two months. BUt the problem is he will be 18 in like two weeks. He is graduating, and he has asked this really annoying fake spray tanned senior girl to prom. His friend chris is also a crush of mine but I have barely spoken to him, and I am wondering if I should? I am heartbroken but my question is, what do I do? They are leaving forever, so do I say something? Do something? Shoud I go all romantic comedy on them? Haha well please advise me on what to do to make sure I don't have any regrets. Thanks!

Please somebody help me. I'm very stuck.

Seriously nobody can answrr

I'm trying to put my brain back in junior high here...
Not working.

Okay. I'll do my best. This is all I got:

Jake, although you have a crush on him, is going to the prom with whom he wants to take to the prom. Nothing you can do about that.

If Chris is single and you have a crush on him as well, then talk to him if you want. Be cool and don't go chasing after the guys. It's okay to let one know you're interested, but you don't want to appear desperado.

You still have another year at your school, right? You want to have a good rep, you know?

Just don't have any high expectations as he is graduating and moving on.

Looking way back on my prom... I wish I would have went with a group of my girlfriends. LOL

Or, you could always stay single until you mature a bit and figure out what you want from these boys at all. If it's just a fling, then do so at your own risk. Just don't go breaking some nice kid's heart and ruining him for other girls out there. Also, what you are experiencing is not love; it's lust at best, and is probably just a hormonally-driven curiosity.

Now that the mean stuff is out of the way, I have a few questions. How did you try to communicate your feelings to this guy? I noticed you have a pic of Edward from Twilight for your avatar, and as someone who was told to be more like that guy I have a piece of advice for you - guys in real life are nothing like the ones in the movies. We can be romantic, and we can surprise you sometimes, but you need to understand that there is no honest man (or woman) who can always know what you want, when you want it. To have that expectation is to set yourself up for disappointment, and will ultimately lead to a lot of negative emotions and unfair resentment.

Plus you claim you've had feelings for another guy as well, so... you really should just chill out and sort out your own feelings. Don't go rushing into anything; also, I know it seems really important right now, but in three or four years your high school experiences will seem laughable and trivial.

My advice - take a step back, focus on your classes, or at least start thinking about some sort of direction for your life. Worry about yourself instead of some other boy. No matter how old you are, you should always be confident in yourself and secure and happy with your life (regardless of your relationship status)!

~ Tee