Need advice about husbands flirting and narcissist behavior

Is he like this ever since?

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Well my first question would be, was he like this when you met him and decided to marry him?

You can't date someone, and then marry them thinking 'oh he will change once we are married'

It just doesn't work that way.


Some guys are flirts. Some guys don't mean anything by it, its just the way they are. My brother is a HUGE flirt, and it caused problems with my sister in law, but once they talked about how upset it made her, they worked it out and he keeps his flirting to a minimum.

TALK to your husband. I cannot stress to people on this board enough how important it is to SPEAK and COMMUNICATE. I almost lost my marriage because of bad communication skills.

Your husband loves you. He will listen and be understanding, and try to compromise with you at the very least. If not stop all together.


As for the narcissism, there isn't much to be done about that. Again, TALK to him and let him know how you feel about his behavior and additude.

You need to be more detailed in your question. What exactly is going on?

Can not answer question that is too vague.

Hi, bahs1984!

Yes, it would be helpful to have more information about the flirting and also how he is exhibiting narcissistic behavior, please?

Thanks!