So why it is all good when a child isn't involved,sex is good and everything well but when a child comes into the pic,then the damn men disappears and then start giving a bunch of excuses about he is married and stuff,didn't he know he was married when he was messing around?

so why it is all good when a child isnt involved,sex is good and everything well but when a child comes into the pic,then the damn men dissappears and then start giving a bunch of excuses about he is married and stuff,didnt he know he was married when he was messing around?

This is a legal board.. was there a question in there somewhere ?

The issue is that the girl is also not being picky, not finding out more about the people they are sleeping with.

So the girl now, files for custody of the child and gets child support form the married man.