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Cheta
May 12, 2009, 01:42 PM
I am 19 and she is 16.for over four years I love her than every one I've ever known,last week I ask her twice if she loves me and she sayed yes but one year ago she said no.I don't know if she is saying yes bcos I told her that I'll buy her a phone.She is too demanding,any time I give her money she must accept and any time I hold her hand she draws her's by force even though her boyfreinds always hold her and she doesn't call me on phone but always taking my phone to call his boyfreind she lies to me but always happy to see me every time which I is not pretentous.So please tell me if she's after my money.If you think she don't like me tell me how to forget about her easily since I love her than every body.Thanks

spitvenom
May 12, 2009, 01:47 PM
Dude you are 19 she is 16 that is first and foremost stop talking to her. And if she is calling her boyfriends on your phone what does that say to you. Do yourself a favor and forget her. But think about it this way you are 19 year old ADULT in love with a 16 year old CHILD! Got it!!

I wish
May 12, 2009, 04:20 PM
She's only 16 man, I'm not sure what you are expecting.

** Sounds like YOU are too demanding. **

She's just doing her own thing. It's time for you to find someone your own age.

liz28
May 12, 2009, 04:40 PM
She has a boyfriend and your still questioning if she wants you, NO.

You would think that would turn you away since her age didn't but it didn't.

She is only talking to you because your trying to buy her but that won't work and I am glad it ain't.

Stay away from this girl an get use by someone your age.

450donn
May 12, 2009, 08:28 PM
Think JAIL. Think being labeled a sex offender for the rest of your life. Think man!

st side singer
May 12, 2009, 09:22 PM
Hi,
Why are you with a 16 yr old girl when your 19?
And she has a boyfriend what is wrong with you
I'm sure you're a nice guy soooo GET OVER THE 16YR OLD AND FIND A GIRL YOUR OWN AGE. And stop asking yourself does she like me. The answer is NO if she loved you she would have dumped her boyfriend and got with you

kp2171
May 12, 2009, 09:44 PM
She has a boyfriend.

It isn't you.

End of discussion.

Cheta
May 13, 2009, 12:05 AM
I am 18 and she's 16.I love her than all human.she always tell me that she love me but she doesn't call my phone number or send text as I always send text to her but calls that of her boyfreinds with mine.If I ask her she will say she don't have boyfreinds or she say he is her brilliant class mate who used to help her in studies(I know he is her classmate),she lies to me,and don't enjoy both of us walking on the road,she's too demanding and,avoids me when in public,any slight statement disfavoring her she stop talking to me but always happy when were talk in private,always smilling at me when our face meet and if I wan't to go she will say I should not leave her.Please do you think she loves me?If no how can I forget or get over her in few days.Thanks

Sahi444
May 13, 2009, 12:55 AM
Man, I can't believe you are still confused! Isn't it obvious? I am also kind of person who gets offended quickly and can stop talking for months on the end . But one thing, dude .I'm same in the public as I am in private. I don't change colours and if I need to do something I am not allowed to, I lie first and the confess later so that at least I have the confidence that there are no secrets.
But you should still give her the benefit of doubt. Don't tell he right now. Observe her for a while and then decide

Besta luck

Gemini54
May 13, 2009, 04:18 AM
Oh for heaven's sake! Grow up and start meeting girls your own age.

She sounds like a twit, and frankly you're not much better.

Stop acting like a love sick puppy, take back your mobile phone and give your attention to someone who deserves and appreciates it.

talaniman
May 13, 2009, 09:33 AM
Your 18, your 19, and your 23, are you also a troll? What's up?


https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/does-she-love-me-353185.html

Thats funny as your 18 in your other post, and I'm sure no one ages that fast. Care to clear this up??

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/she-loves-hate-me-352971.html

Okay dude, come clean, or stay home.

mia_seeley
May 13, 2009, 10:13 AM
Look I have seen this several times she is way into your pocket have you heard the term gold digger? Plus she's jail bait. You want run away fast. Who cares if you told her you would get her a phone. If she wants you she has a weird way of showing it wait until she's old enough not to play you or just don't speak to her