Me and my boyfriend have been going out since last October and lately he hasn't wanted to hold me and he tells me he loves me sometimes but I'm worried that something is wrong he didn't come to bed last night I went to bed before him and he was with his mom in her room all night it was 3 in the morning I was tired.

Hi, millietwo3!

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Usually, people start to distant themselves when their feelings have changed. He may say he loves you but not in love with you.

It is hard to say if that is the case since you provided so little information, more information would give you a better answer =P

Yes, providing more information here would be good in order for us to help you the best.

Thanks!

We need more information than just what you said. It could be many different things, like maybe he didn't want to wake you if he came to bed. My fiancé is like the devil if you wake her up from a sound sleep, so if I go to bed later than her I try to sneak in and pray I don't wake her.