lolalola22
May 9, 2009, 01:13 AM
I went out with this guy once a few months ago but after one date we texted a bit but didn't make another date- I didn't think either of us were that into each other and were both busy with work so I thought nothing of it. However, about three months later he asked me out again out of the blue - seeming very keen we made a date for a few days later and had a great time - which surprised me. A few days later I got in touch and asked him out the following Saturday. He said he wasn't sure if he was needed at work that day - which I know to be true - and asked if we could play it by ear. I replied that was OK and that I hoped he could make it - but now the day has arrived and have still heard nothing from him..
I think whether he is just too busy or not interested there's not much I can do - but I like him and also don't want to lose too much confidence - was wondering if there was something simple I could text him just to tie up the situation. I don't want to be aggressive or chase him for another date - but have had a rough time with a bad break up in the last year and am trying to take things slow and learn a bit more about dating to build up my confidence
Also what does someone mean when they say ' can we play it by ear'? Isn't dating fun?.
Thanks
Charlie
I think whether he is just too busy or not interested there's not much I can do - but I like him and also don't want to lose too much confidence - was wondering if there was something simple I could text him just to tie up the situation. I don't want to be aggressive or chase him for another date - but have had a rough time with a bad break up in the last year and am trying to take things slow and learn a bit more about dating to build up my confidence
Also what does someone mean when they say ' can we play it by ear'? Isn't dating fun?.
Thanks
Charlie