View Full Version : Boyfriend in love w/me, I don't have any feelings for him
swimmingguru101
May 8, 2009, 05:56 AM
My boyfriend kissed me and I realized that I didn't have any feelings for him. How do I let him down easy?
Also, some of his friends are telling me that he probably is in love with me and I've only been out on 2-3 dates with him. It sounds a little weird to me. What do you think I should do?
I wish
May 8, 2009, 05:59 AM
You guys sound really young. How can you love someone have 2-3 days...
Just tell him that at first you weren't sure of you feelings for him, so you gave him a chance, but now you realize that you don't feel the same way.
roxypox
May 8, 2009, 09:01 AM
I agree with I wish. It does sound as if you are really young... and it does sound strange that you can be in love with someone after only a few dates.
The advice I wish (sorry ;) had to spread rep) was really good! Tell him you wanted to give it a shot, but you don't feel the same way he does.
Best of luck!
N0help4u
May 8, 2009, 11:49 AM
If he is in love with you after only 2 or 3 dates he very likely could be the insecure clingy/needy type
Tell him you aren't that interested in him since you hardly know him and you are not all that interested in a boyfriend right now. If he is okay with that proceed with caution. If he gets too clingy/needy tell him you feel that you should see less of each other and back away before you get in too deep.
Fr_Chuck
May 8, 2009, 11:55 AM
In the end, you just be honest if you don't have feelings.
joshdom
May 8, 2009, 07:28 PM
Tell him, it will hurt no matter what
talaniman
May 9, 2009, 07:06 AM
You may as well be honest, so you both can move on.
AManWithNoName
May 9, 2009, 03:37 PM
Leave him, shouldn't lead him on making him thinking you love him, it will hurt more knowing you never loved him
hamada123
May 9, 2009, 04:45 PM
Tell him things moved to fast you like him better as a friend. Make it really clear leading guys on sucks.