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xxlil_sammyxx
May 7, 2009, 08:15 AM
Me and my boyfriend have been together 7 months and he admitted to me that he has never been able to get a hard on by looking at me in sexy clothes or naked, it makes me feel like he doesn't think I'm good looking or fit. He said he has never been able to do it with any girl or by watching fit girls on TV but I don't know if I can believe him as he lied to me before. He only gets hard if he touches it or I do. Please help people I hate feeling ugly what should I do?
Justwantfair
May 7, 2009, 08:27 AM
Unless guys are fifteen years old, it is not uncommon for them to require stimulation for an erection. Some people are visually stimulated, some verbally, some physically. Depends on the individual.
If he says this isn't an issue exclusive to you then don't be so willing to upset yourself over it.
If he didn't want to be with you, I would imagine that he wouldn't be. Enjoy your relationship.
xxlil_sammyxx
May 7, 2009, 08:34 AM
Thank you for answering and I will take your word for it as I never knew that there was different ways a guy has to be stimulated to get a hard on. :)
Your right if he did get on from other girls then I'm sure he would be with them.
Oh just he is 21
I wish
May 7, 2009, 08:58 AM
I don't know how he feels about your physical appearance, but if he doesn't find you attractive and is still in the relationship, it means that he likes you for much more than looks.
If he does find you attractive, then I guess he's just the type of guy who needs more stimulation to get aroused.
liz28
May 7, 2009, 08:59 AM
Don't let your self-esteem be ruin because there is nothing wrong with you. He already expressed to you what the problem is which might be a good thing for. Let the touching begin.
talaniman
May 7, 2009, 12:06 PM
Don't feel ugly, and don't take his issue personally, just help the poor guy out, dress sexy, and touch him. HEHEHE!