a la king
May 6, 2009, 04:38 PM
I lost all my emails the other day and have been furiously trying to get them back. Well, the good news is that I think I succeeded. The bad news is a bunch of previously deleted emails from my than girlfriend showed up in the retrieval process. There's a lot of emails when you've been together for almost 10 years.
I've done my best to have no contact since the breakup 9 months ago - and succeed. I've done everything possible to move that part of my life behind me even to the point of recently dating a beautiful new girl.
And than I see all the old emails from my 'past' life and it comes crashing down around me.
The heart does funny things. It makes you just want to pick up the phone and forget the whole disaster. It's like passing by an old home and instantly feeling a sense of comfort,calm and warmth. There were many rough patches - even her not loving me any longer. But still, my mind and heavy heart, for a brief second took a huge sigh of relief. At least I know I can still feel pain.
And now I need to go through the task of sorting through the emails and deleting them. Perhaps I should read all of them to remember the good and the bad.
The part that gets me, even still, is the thought that I can still feel this discomfort for someone who feels nothing towards me. What a waste of time and effort on my part.
It's going to be a long, long night.
I've done my best to have no contact since the breakup 9 months ago - and succeed. I've done everything possible to move that part of my life behind me even to the point of recently dating a beautiful new girl.
And than I see all the old emails from my 'past' life and it comes crashing down around me.
The heart does funny things. It makes you just want to pick up the phone and forget the whole disaster. It's like passing by an old home and instantly feeling a sense of comfort,calm and warmth. There were many rough patches - even her not loving me any longer. But still, my mind and heavy heart, for a brief second took a huge sigh of relief. At least I know I can still feel pain.
And now I need to go through the task of sorting through the emails and deleting them. Perhaps I should read all of them to remember the good and the bad.
The part that gets me, even still, is the thought that I can still feel this discomfort for someone who feels nothing towards me. What a waste of time and effort on my part.
It's going to be a long, long night.