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ice ice
May 6, 2009, 12:28 PM
Edited for grammar, spelling.

Why do boys act so stupid? They text you saying that they like you, then when somebody confronts them, they want to play duh.

I like these two guys one is sweet, intelligent, and hot. The other is all the same thing, so what should I do?
I'm confused.

mudweiser
May 6, 2009, 12:31 PM
Boys are stupid.

Men aren't.

Your question is wishy washy. You think boys are stupid yet you want help in picking one?---am I missing something here?

Sarah

liz28
May 6, 2009, 12:34 PM
You must be high school because this sounds like something I would hear on Hannah Montana or Zoey 101.

Btw, I don't watch these shows but my daughter does. Okay, once in awhile I watch it with her.

artlady
May 6, 2009, 12:44 PM
I am guessing you are quite young.
Know that girls mature faster than boys.While you are young,they will always be lagging by a few years on a level of maturity.

Boys are often easily embarrassed and do not have much of a clue how to behave around girls.That is why they act as you said *stupid

The best thing you can do is be honest and mature and pick the friend who suits you best.Shared interests,etc.

ajGambino
May 6, 2009, 12:48 PM
You should pick one or pick neither. It's that simple.

Romefalls19
May 6, 2009, 12:50 PM
Flip a coin?

mudweiser
May 6, 2009, 12:53 PM
Flip a coin?

Rome didn't you choose your fiancé by "eenie meenie miney moe"?

Sarah

Romefalls19
May 6, 2009, 12:54 PM
Rome didn't you choose your fiance by "eenie meenie miney moe"?

Sarah

Yep. It was a tough game but in the end I think it worked out for the best... Now let's hope she doesn't find out

I wish
May 6, 2009, 01:12 PM
That's a huge generalization. Two boys don't represent the entire population.

But if you can't handle their stupidity, then don't talk to them. Why torture yourself?

As you get older, you will realize that not all boys or men are like that.

liz28
May 6, 2009, 01:16 PM
Romefalls, you know you love Hannah Montana and Zoey 101.

chuff
May 6, 2009, 02:34 PM
Boys are stupid but you are using two until one picks you. Okay.

talaniman
May 7, 2009, 10:53 AM
Why do boys act so stupid? They text you saying that they like you, then when somebody confronts them, they want to play duh.
Young guys don't really know how to act, when confronted by a female. They aren't really stupid though, just confused as are you.

I like these two guys one is sweet, intelligent, and hot. The other is all the same thing, so what should I do?
I'm confused.
Get to know them both, and see where the friendship goes. Why does it have to be one or another, as long as your honest with them both??

friend4u178
May 7, 2009, 06:06 PM
Tell them both they have competition , then if one of them really likes you they may make a move.

JoeCanada76
May 7, 2009, 06:25 PM
Edited for grammar, spelling.

Why do boys act so stupid? They text you saying that they like you, then when somebody confronts them, they want to play duh.

I like these two guys one is sweet, intelligent, and hot. The other is all the same thing, so what should i do?
I'm confused.

Why do girls act so stupid?

You like two boys? Your Confused? Yet your saying Boys are acting so stupid?

What should you do? If your so confused then do not do anything at all. Your not old enough to date anyway.

Joe

Alty
May 7, 2009, 06:52 PM
Boys can be stupid, girls can be stupid, it depends on the situation.

You're playing two guys and they're the ones that are stupid? Sweetie, no, not really.

If you play with people sometimes they play back.

I'm guessing you're aroudn 13, 14, so you've still got time to learn, grow up a bit. Until then, leave the boys alone!

letmetellu
May 7, 2009, 07:06 PM
Why pick just one, you can have more male friends that just one at a time. Later you might find out that one is not as stupid as the other.

friend4u178
May 7, 2009, 07:12 PM
Comments on this post
Altenweg agrees: You've done this before. :)

Aha... worked for me ;)

lala55555
May 8, 2009, 05:48 PM
Okay this is a teen board. Teens should comment people!! I'm a teen and it sounds normal enoguh to me so all you adults should stop comparing her to zoey 101 and hannah Montana! And by the way for ice ice you should see which guy is better because a lot of guys want you for looks and sex lol and yes boys are stupid and SO ARE A LOT OF MEN!

Romefalls19
May 8, 2009, 06:08 PM
Okay this is a teen board. Teens should comment ppl!!! I'm a teen and it sounds normal enoguh to me so all u adults shoudl stop comparing her to zoey 101 and hannah montana!! And btw for ice ice you should see which guy is better bc a lot of guys want you for looks and sex lol and yes boys are stupid and SO ARE A LOT OF MEN!!

Thank you for proving the "adults" point

lala55555
May 8, 2009, 06:20 PM
Why do girls act so stupid?

You like two boys? Your Confused? Yet your saying Boys are acting so stupid?

What should you do? If your so confused then do not do anything at all. Your not old enough to date anyway.

Joe

Haha by your picture jesushelper it looks like boys are stupid

Romefalls19
May 8, 2009, 06:24 PM
Haha by your picture jesushelper it looks like boys are stupid

By the way, this post was originally in the "relationship" forum too, which is why the "adults" commented on it. We have a lot more experience with teenage relationships then you do

JoeCanada76
May 8, 2009, 07:07 PM
Okay this is a teen board. Teens should comment ppl!!! I'm a teen and it sounds normal enoguh to me so all u adults shoudl stop comparing her to zoey 101 and hannah montana!! And btw for ice ice you should see which guy is better bc a lot of guys want you for looks and sex lol and yes boys are stupid and SO ARE A LOT OF MEN!!

Sorry but anybody can answer here. This board and every other board is for posts with answers.
You can not tell people who should answer it and who should not, you do not have the right.

As far as my picture of the boy sticking his tongue out. Fun picture.

Joe

chuff
May 8, 2009, 07:41 PM
Okay this is a teen board. Teens should comment ppl!!! I'm a teen and it sounds normal enoguh to me so all u adults shoudl stop comparing her to zoey 101 and hannah montana!! And btw for ice ice you should see which guy is better bc a lot of guys want you for looks and sex lol and yes boys are stupid and SO ARE A LOT OF MEN!!

I agree with everything you said. I guess. I'm not really sure, as an adult I speak in complete sentences and write that way too.

Alty
May 8, 2009, 07:58 PM
Okay this is a teen board. Teens should comment ppl!!! I'm a teen and it sounds normal enoguh to me so all u adults shoudl stop comparing her to zoey 101 and hannah montana!! And btw for ice ice you should see which guy is better bc a lot of guys want you for looks and sex lol and yes boys are stupid and SO ARE A LOT OF MEN!!

Apparently a lot of girls are stupid too.

Oh, by the way, yes, I'm an adult, but, surprise, surprise, I was a teen once too. Funny how that works.

Maybe, just maybe, I know a bit more then some smart mouthed little girl. Actually, there's no maybe about it.

You have no right to determine who posts on this thread. When you run your own site then you can make the rules, until then I suggest you follow them. :)

Pokerface5
May 8, 2009, 08:06 PM
Because some of them are shallow and are only worried about saving face and not looking like they have a crush on someone. Mostly young guys do that, but some older guys are a bit more mature... SOME
WINK :)

JudyKayTee
May 9, 2009, 04:27 PM
Thank you for proving the "adults" point


If you think THIS is a stupid answer, you should see the PM's she's been sending me!

Anyone signing up for copies?

Apparently doesn't want to show her true colors on the Board.

Romefalls19
May 9, 2009, 05:27 PM
I'll sign up! I want to see them!

friend4u178
May 9, 2009, 05:32 PM
I'll sign up! I want to see them!

Ditto!

JoeCanada76
May 9, 2009, 05:32 PM
I will sign up too.

Edit: Looks like we are all in agreement.

Alty
May 9, 2009, 06:30 PM
Make that 4, I'm in. :)

JudyKayTee
May 9, 2009, 07:00 PM
Whoops - public apology. I am confusing posters and didn't realize it until I forwarded one of the PM's. This person's responses to me were removed from the Board, they were not by PM. https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/missing-persons/cant-find-mother-346906.html

Sorry - my error. Absolutely no intention of misleading anyone. Again - my error.

HrvSavag3r
May 11, 2009, 05:12 AM
Not all boys are like that, just most, you need to find yourself one who will text you saying he loves you and more importantly say it to your face, and for picking the boys
Pick the one with the better personality and the better marks at school and the one with the better attitude towards school because u don't want some onet htat will drop out at 16 and drag you down with him

chuff
May 11, 2009, 06:38 AM
Not all boys are like that, just most,

False.

JudyKayTee
May 11, 2009, 06:39 AM
False.


Makes sense if you read the history - :D https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/anger-problems-352323.html

Romefalls19
May 11, 2009, 07:25 AM
Yep I want to hear the latest! I do!

HrvSavag3r
May 11, 2009, 03:13 PM
Its not false... at my school and the surrounding schools 98% will say something to a girl just to get in her pants. So in my books that's most

Romefalls19
May 11, 2009, 03:16 PM
its not false... at my school and the surrounding schools 98% will say something to a girl just to get in her pants. so in my books thats most

Did you do this survey yourself? I would like to see the evidence supporting this. I work in a school, we have banners hanging up saying "98% of our school students think bullying someone is wrong" yet I have gotten more than 200 write ups about bullying, that's more than 2% of the school.

HrvSavag3r
May 11, 2009, 03:18 PM
It was a survey done by the schools well being officer and bullying is something u can't help:S

Romefalls19
May 11, 2009, 03:24 PM
There are a lot of guys in schools that say what they mean and mean what they say. Some haven't grown up yet, but most mean what they say

chuff
May 11, 2009, 03:24 PM
its not false...

It is.


at my school and the surrounding schools 98% will say something to a girl just to get in her pants.

I'll need to see the survey you took to get this number.


so in my books thats most

In my book, there are about 6 billion people on planet earth, of those slightly less then half are men. If I take into account your school and the surrounding schools that doesn't even account for the 2% figure of left over guys you made up.

JudyKayTee
May 11, 2009, 03:42 PM
its not false... at my school and the surrounding schools 98% will say something to a girl just to get in her pants. so in my books thats most



As with every survey you have to consider who is actually compliling the figures and the reason for the survey.

That pretty much sums it up.