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helpless1234
May 5, 2009, 11:14 AM
Hey people I like really need your help... from the top... Okay I have this friend on Facebook who I really think I just might like... the problem is I've spoken to her just once... seems like it was a good conversation but after I tried talking to her again there was no response which leaves me here asking you guys to help me out. What do I do or say to her... she's got like 500 friends on Facebook which makes things harder for me in getting her to notice me. This sucks! :(

TristaNicholle
May 5, 2009, 11:16 AM
So how do you know you really like her if you've only talked to her once through Facebook? I mean people in person can be a whole lot different that over something as impersonal as a webpage... Just a thought...

I wish
May 5, 2009, 11:24 AM
Is there any way for you to see her in person? How did you get her Facebook in the first place? Try chatting with her in IM.

Mayank Verma
May 5, 2009, 11:26 AM
It seems like that you are new one. Ok! It might be that you like her but my friend I hv experienced more than 12 years of chating this is nothing just a good chat for her side. And it is possible that she does not cared that you want to talk! Just one solution behave like her try to do same as she want. Try to use the same chating words she mostly typed and look up her routine hwen she is online and all evrytime when she is online leave a some message that she always want to read and it will take a time but you will become few of them she perfer to chat

crazychick56
May 5, 2009, 07:02 PM
Well TristaNicholle makeds a lot of good sense... I would give a greenie for him if I fiugred out how... but I don't know how>:( but anyhoo... he does have a good point... do you know what she looks like? And if you do through pictures... then how do you know that's really her... what if she turns out to be a freak or maybe some obsessed crazy girl... plus if she is really busy with other friends it may seem... then don't bother bothering her... she might think you are a stalker.


So... just leave it alone... if she doesn't message you back o well... just don't message her at all... maybe a hi every now and again as friends but 1. you don't want to get with somebody you don't even know and 2. you don't want to make a bad mistake.


So just leave it alone... you could find another girl you will like... but you can see her and um you KNOW her for the fact:) thanks:)

nikosmom
May 5, 2009, 07:25 PM
You don't really know her.
Is this someone from your school?
What makes you think you like her?

Honestly, she might be creeped out by someone that she doesn't really know saying that he likes her. Just a thought.

micah_harlan
Dec 4, 2010, 05:04 PM
I agree with Nikosmom she might be creeped out by you a little... sorry good luck!

crazychick56
Dec 16, 2010, 08:46 PM
Another thing. If you haven't met her, only seen pictures on Facebook or whatever, I don't think it's a consiberable "like".