BobbyVandeyar
May 4, 2009, 07:09 PM
There's this girl whom I've known for a couple of months. Talked a lot and stuff, we liked each other however she told me sometime in January that she had a boyfriend, pretty much just losing all my chances of actually being with her, which was messed up because she was talking to me while she was with this kid. She said she liked me, and loved our talks, and said she was sorry for not telling me and stuff. I forgived her, and remained friends.
Now then two weeks go by, and turns out she breaks up with him, due to sum issues that he had with her and stuff. Tells me, she's back to being single again. Then I asked if we can be more then friends. She said she doesn't know, and isn't really looking, just wants to focus on school and stuff. Which I definitely respect. So school starts, we don't talk as much. She always im's me, calls me whenever she gets a chance and stuff. And when she does, most of the time she apologizes that we don't talk as much and stuff. I always tell her don't apologize you have your priorities, and she says I know but I miss our talks. And I told her I missed her too.
Now here's the part where I don't know. Last night I was at a viewing of my best friends father who unfournately died in a car crash. She calls me and I only talked to her for 5mins and I told her id call her back later, which I did but it was late and she was alreadly asleep. I texted her telling her it was great to hear from her even if it was for 5mins and I missed her. Then I had a dream I was on a date with this chick, and that at the end of it, I was making out with her holding hands that whole lovey dovey stuff. And I wake up like why the hell did I dream that?
She texted me today saying she was sorry for not replying last night and that she was glad to hear from me and that she missed me, told me to call her later so we can talk. But all day that dream was in my mind. Even now.
I need to know how to approach this. What to do. And honestly, I like her but don't really feel like being a safety net again if I try to go after her again. Because while I was talking to her before she hid the fact that she had another guy, yet had feelings for me too. But I isn't the person who has time to play the guess how she's feeling game. And yet depsite saying that. I would like to have a relationship with her.
Ne suggestions?
Now then two weeks go by, and turns out she breaks up with him, due to sum issues that he had with her and stuff. Tells me, she's back to being single again. Then I asked if we can be more then friends. She said she doesn't know, and isn't really looking, just wants to focus on school and stuff. Which I definitely respect. So school starts, we don't talk as much. She always im's me, calls me whenever she gets a chance and stuff. And when she does, most of the time she apologizes that we don't talk as much and stuff. I always tell her don't apologize you have your priorities, and she says I know but I miss our talks. And I told her I missed her too.
Now here's the part where I don't know. Last night I was at a viewing of my best friends father who unfournately died in a car crash. She calls me and I only talked to her for 5mins and I told her id call her back later, which I did but it was late and she was alreadly asleep. I texted her telling her it was great to hear from her even if it was for 5mins and I missed her. Then I had a dream I was on a date with this chick, and that at the end of it, I was making out with her holding hands that whole lovey dovey stuff. And I wake up like why the hell did I dream that?
She texted me today saying she was sorry for not replying last night and that she was glad to hear from me and that she missed me, told me to call her later so we can talk. But all day that dream was in my mind. Even now.
I need to know how to approach this. What to do. And honestly, I like her but don't really feel like being a safety net again if I try to go after her again. Because while I was talking to her before she hid the fact that she had another guy, yet had feelings for me too. But I isn't the person who has time to play the guess how she's feeling game. And yet depsite saying that. I would like to have a relationship with her.
Ne suggestions?