Hi my wife says she does not love me and wants to separate we have three kids 2 boys aged 14 and 3 and a daughter of 13 we run a together a buisiness and through the economic are suffering as well financially but the problem with me is I love my family so much and have tried everything to keep my family together sometimes angry and sometimes nicely but whatever I do it just blows up in my face my wife was so unhappy that she had an affair 9 months ago it took me 3 months to find out this and why my wife was being so horrible to me when I discovered the truth she said it was her guilt problem its made me feel guilty I have not been the best dad in the world and had to take a good look at myself meanwhile I got very depressed and down talked to many people am hopeless with the kids at the moment bless them all my wife is going to take them 2000 miles away wish this nightmare could stop or I could turn back the clock

Have you tried counseling?

Hi thanks my wife says she does not need counseling every option that I put to her seems to lead to dead ends