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AsHrAe
Apr 27, 2009, 10:40 AM
I made a HUGE mistake. I let my boyfriend convince me to have sex with out using a condom a total of 6 times within 2 days. I know, stupid right. He obviously used the pulled out method because I told him not to in me. What I am worried about is the risk of precum, the risk that he might have accidentally came in me, and if I am pregnant, how the hell I am going to tell my father. I mean I don't even know if I am. It was this past weekend, and I am just worried. I need help, I need to know what to do. I am lost here. I don't have a mother that I can call up and say "Hey, i think i may be in trouble. Can you help me tell Daddy?" I am going tomorrow to get the "Plan B" pill just in case I have a chance of getting pregnant but it is only effective up to 3 days... tomorrow is the third day, the least effective day. I am worried and I really wish that you guys can give me some advice. Im scared, and I don't want to disappoint my father. Im his last hope and if I am pregnant, he is going to secretly hate me. Please help me.

0rphan
Apr 27, 2009, 10:51 AM
Lets hope that you are not, but don't forget to get the plan B PILL...
Once I can understand... BUT 6 TIMES... WHAT WERE YOU THINKING OF!!

Well what's done is done, I truly hope that you are not pregnant.. although you have a very good chance of being so... it's not always the case.

When you have sex again please make sure you have condoms , not only to save a pregnancy, but also to protect yourself against sexually transmitted deseases.

artlady
Apr 27, 2009, 11:48 AM
The pre ejaculate does not contain sperm as previously thought but if he is ejaculating more than once there is a good chance there will be sperm left from the last ejaculation and that will come out with the next pre ejaculation.

DoulaLC
Apr 27, 2009, 12:06 PM
Definitely get the plan B and use it right away. Try not to stress over telling your father unless that obviously becomes necessary... cross that bridge if you come to it.

DO NOT let yourself be talked into having sex without a condom again at anytime... it must be used every single time and in place before there is any penetration... there is no sense taking any chances that he won't pull out in time... and as artlady said, the biggest concern is reentry after a previous ejaculation... increases the risk of pregnancy with the withdrawl method. You may or may not ovulate within the norm so no time is 100% safe to avoid pregnancy.

IF he makes a fuss... that tells you he is thinking more of himself than of you and the possible consequences... might find you have to make a decision about whether he is the sort of boyfriend you want to have.