Hi, I'm 17 years old and have been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 weeks. He recently showed me his genitals and I have noticed a small bump on the head of his penis. Later that day I sent him a text message asking him if he had an STD. He told me no so I asked about the bump. He told me it is unpainful and it's been there for a while. He hasn't had it looked at because he has no insurance. I am afraid to have sexual intercourse with him because I don't want it to affect me in any way. He claims that it hasn't bothered any other girl he has had sex with but I'm still scared. Does anyone have any idea what it might be?

First of all refuse any sexual contact.
He just admintted having sex w/ past girls/girlfriends. Was his previous encounters "protected?"

He needs to go get checked because no online site can fully help diagnose and be 100% sure.
This is to safeguard your health. If he refuses then you need to leave him.

No he was with a girl for 2 years and they weren't protected. Also I was in the same boat and not protected.

Someone correct me if I'm wrong but wouldn't Plan Parenthood look at that for free?

I was thinking that planned parenthood would but then I came to the conclusion that he is 20 years old and I don't think they would for free unless he was under 18?

There has to be a free clinic in your area.
They will check him and precribe him medicine if needed.

National Association of Free Clinics(NAFC) (http://www.freeclinics.us/freeclinic.php)


Look here to see if you see a free clinic in your area.

This is one area I know to look.

You say that he doesn't have health insurance... what about you because you have had unprotected sex with him and it could well be an STD so you need to get yourself checked out to make sure you haven't caught it.