I have linked a good article from CNN this morning about being friends with your ex, perhaps recent break up victims should read this.

Should you remain friends with an ex? - CNN.com (http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/04/27/tf.remain.friends.with.ex/index.html)

I agree with this article. Thanks for posting.

I cut contact from my recent ex who messed it up and I don't see myself talking to her again. However, my previous ex and I remain friends after dating 3 years ago for 2 years. So I think it's possible, just have to allow time and I think a couple new partners in between, to realize if you can/can't be friends.

I also think it depends on how it ended. My recent ex cheated so I have no respect and don't care to know her. But who knows what the future has in store