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famousdork1
Apr 26, 2009, 06:29 PM
All right. Hi. Okay. I'm worried about my boyfriend . :|
Only because, like. When me and him are texting or are on the phone,
He acts all sweet and stuff. Like he says "i love you."
And things like that too me. But when we get too school.
He acts all different. He talks too me, but he's not as fun like he is on the phone.
And he doesn't really even act like we're together.
I'm just wondering, like. Is he shy? Or is it like a normal guy thing?
H.E.L.P. <3. thanks :)

Nestorian
Apr 26, 2009, 06:39 PM
We have no idea and can only give you useless assumptions on this matter. Since we don't know him, or what he is like, how he acts with different people, and how he feels about you.

WE can work on how you will cope with this. So you obviously like him, smittened maybe, but Love... Do you really love him?

More importantly do you love yourself? If you are not happy with how he is behaving why not ask him? Be open and honest, I'm sure he will understand. If he doesn't, do you really want to be with some one that is not going to respect you?

Try talking to him about it, and then go from there. You are capable, strong, smart, and young; so don't sit there and spend your time worring about what is going on in his head, you've got your own to contend with. Eh?

May peace and kindness be with you.

mudweiser
Apr 26, 2009, 06:54 PM
Internet communication or "texting" is very funny. You can say a million things on the net and do another in the "real" world. It give us a confidence to say anything since we cannot see the person and they cannot see us.

However this confidence will often lead us to some sort of trouble.

I suggest you ask your boyfriend about it- yep. After all he is your boyfriend, if you can't talk to him about something simple like this then you shouldn't be in a relationship at all.

Talk to him and find the truth- it's the only way.

Sarah

famousdork1
Apr 27, 2009, 07:20 PM
Thank you both. I'll just ask him at school tomorrow. And no, I'm not IN LOVE with him- but I love him. In other words, I REALLY REALLY LIKE HIM & I CARE ABOUT HIM A lot.