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CSUfan4
Apr 26, 2009, 02:55 PM
I kind of like this boy at school. We talk on aim all the time and in school all the time. We r really good friends and help each other, etc. At the end of our convos on aim, he always says ily so much as a sister, or ilylassdm!! He even refers to me as his girlfriend! He dates like a different girl EVERY week. I do like him but I can't exactly tell him I like him yet... How do I like, drop "hints", or get him to like me? I know that when he called me his girlfriend he meant it in a bestest friend way. How do I get him to like me MORE then he already does?! :confused: HELP!!

ScottGem
Apr 26, 2009, 03:00 PM
I'm guessing that ily means I like/love you. But what does ilylassdm mean?

This is not a chat room, we do not allow chatspeak here.

How old are you both?

IheartEdward
Apr 26, 2009, 04:03 PM
He sounds like a right studmuffin, do you maybe think your just another one of those girls he'll date for a week then drop you.

Do you talk to him in real life ofter.. remember people are different on aim and they can act nothing like themselves.

AManWithNoName
Apr 27, 2009, 04:02 PM
Guys, I'm one of those things, we like it, hell, love it when girls flirt with us, and hell, just ask him out on a date, I bet he'll be more than glad to go, there is nothing better in this world to a guy than a cute girl asking them out, its like the best narcotic in the world to us

TURN OFF CAPS LOCK

YOU, FOR SOME REASON, SOUND ADORABLE

Nestorian
Apr 27, 2009, 04:16 PM
I kinda like this boy at school. We talk on aim all the time and in school all the time. We r really good friends and help each other, etc. At the end of our convos on aim, he always says ily so much as a sister, or ilylassdm!!!! he even refers to me as his girlfriend!! he dates like a different girl EVERY week. I do like him but i can't exactly tell him i like him yet... How do i like, drop "hints", or get him to like me?? I know that when he called me his girlfriend he meant it in a bestest friend way. How do i get him to like me MORE then he already does?????!!!!!!!!!:confused: HELP!!!!! !!!!!!!!

You can't, he has to do that all on his own. You could always tell him how you feel and play it from there. Droping hints is too easily mistaken for sex, unless you want to have sex? (Just putting it out there.)

If he is with a different girl every week, then be aware that he may not think of you any different, as he seems to be just "playing the field"

PEace ank kindness be with you.

Fuzzball_Kara
Apr 27, 2009, 04:33 PM
Well, you can't make him like you. You can't make anyone do anything. If he's that kind of guy who's dating one a week, he doesn't sound very interested in a serious relationship right now and it sounds like that is what you want. It might be best to just stay friends with this kid. If you did date him and it only lasted a week then more than likely you just lost a boyfriend AND a friend. But it's your call.