I have been involved with a certain lady in an online relationship that ended some 12 months ago. At the time I was not ready to take this relationship further, wanting to concentrate on other career etc. I later found out I had developed a strong bond with her and after seeing her randomly a few times later, we didn't do anything because I wasn't ready.
This lady has a previous involvement in a long term relationship and still misses the man she dated prior to myself. I have seen here recently but, although I revieved positive signal to approach her etc, I am afraid to get involved with her fearing she will want to get back with her ex, who she misses so much. I am having trouble with these feelings I feel for her. Ps her ex is now engaged with another lady however I fear that because she still ahs feelings for him it is a danger for me. Please help

That would be dangerous for you. Those feelings would cloud her judgement, as well as keep you on edge. Give her time to get over her ex and see what happens from there.

Let me guess, you saw her after a year and then you realised the bond was there? You saw her again, and again, and the bond got stronger, but your scared to take a chance. Am I close?

You still aren't ready for anything with her.