MT36
Apr 26, 2009, 01:52 AM
Well I'll try and keep this long story as short as possible...
I'd been seeing this woman for a number of months and I really thought she was the "one" - she ticked every box I'd ever wanted and everything was sublime
We never fought and really enjoyed the fact that we were so similar (3 days apart in birthdays) and we had this incredible innate understanding of each other...
She had told me previously that she was a "player" but really wanted to settle down and felt I was the one too...
I believed her...
Then out of the blue on new years eve she said that she wanted to break up as she needed to "find" herself and didn't want to be in a relationship - we even spent the next few days together as she said we'll get through this together and said she wanted to be friends and she said I was part of her family
Well within 2 weeks she was seeing someone else - that hurt!! - (she didn't meet this person until we'd broken up - I know this for a fact)
On my birthday - which was 3 days after hers in Feb (I had phoned her for hers and given her a fantastic present) - there was nothing - no text message or phone call nothing
Then recently one of my closest friends died after a long battle with cancer - I sent her a text and told her and once again - nothing - that really hurt as she really knew how much my friend meant to me...
I was so hurt because she said she wanted to be friends
Well its another month on and I'm keeping myself soooo busy and doing OK - but I'm just not interested in dating and I just can't stop thinking about her
I don't know what to do
I trusted her - but I really want to get her out of my head
Any advice would be much appreciated
Thanks for reading my post...
I'd been seeing this woman for a number of months and I really thought she was the "one" - she ticked every box I'd ever wanted and everything was sublime
We never fought and really enjoyed the fact that we were so similar (3 days apart in birthdays) and we had this incredible innate understanding of each other...
She had told me previously that she was a "player" but really wanted to settle down and felt I was the one too...
I believed her...
Then out of the blue on new years eve she said that she wanted to break up as she needed to "find" herself and didn't want to be in a relationship - we even spent the next few days together as she said we'll get through this together and said she wanted to be friends and she said I was part of her family
Well within 2 weeks she was seeing someone else - that hurt!! - (she didn't meet this person until we'd broken up - I know this for a fact)
On my birthday - which was 3 days after hers in Feb (I had phoned her for hers and given her a fantastic present) - there was nothing - no text message or phone call nothing
Then recently one of my closest friends died after a long battle with cancer - I sent her a text and told her and once again - nothing - that really hurt as she really knew how much my friend meant to me...
I was so hurt because she said she wanted to be friends
Well its another month on and I'm keeping myself soooo busy and doing OK - but I'm just not interested in dating and I just can't stop thinking about her
I don't know what to do
I trusted her - but I really want to get her out of my head
Any advice would be much appreciated
Thanks for reading my post...