I might loose my boyfriend in 3-4 weeks. He acts like it's no big deal that he has a heart problem... I don't know how to cope with it because he keeps telling me not to worry about it. I don't know how I can deal with losing him because he's dying. He's the only one who actually cared about me and I can't live without him. I haven't met him in real life, but he means a lot to me. I haven't told anyone in my family or my classmates about this because they would probably tell me to not to meet him again. I wish time just stops so I can be with him forever... =(

Olay, someone you met on line has told you his dying, and has only 3 to 4 weeks to live. You haven't met him in real life.

How do you know he is telling you the truth and just doesn't want contact with you any longer.

Tick

Mmmm sounds a little fishy.

You better be careful because you've never met him in person before. There's no way to know if all this is true or not.

I'm going to meet him in real life in 2 years.

I'm going to meet him in real life in 2 years.

If he told you he only has a short time to live because he has a heart problem, how are you going to meet him in two years if he isn't going to be around ?

Dying, how old are you ? And how old does this person you are corresponding with say he is ?

Tick

I'm so sorry about your loss that's coming up. What you should do is be the best girlfriend you can be for his last few days . Also give him the best time of his life.:(

im so sorry about your loss thats coming up. what you should do is be the best gf you can be for his last few days . also give him the best time of his life.:(

The OP hasn't met this man yet.

Tick

Sounds a little fishy. An internet boyfriend telling you that he is dying. I mean really sit down and think about it... you have never met this guy, you have no idea if he is sick or not. Why would you be so upset over something you have no idea is even true? As for giving him the time of his life in his last few days, don't do that! You've never met this guy he could be one of those guys killing women out there. Telling you that he is going to die is one way he might think he can get you to feel sorry for him, meet him, have sex with him, and then who knows what will happen to you. Think first before you worry about a man you never met... good luck with all of this.

[QUOTE=I wish;1690895]You better be careful because you've never met him in person before. There's no way to know if all this is true or not.

[true but I could be real. So don't get too worked up ]

How long have you been talking to him? If you haven't met him in person then its just an emotional affair and most of it is maybe in your imagination. You don't know the truth about this person. What if he is a married man with children getting sick fix online? Yu only know what he tells you. What would happen if you met him in his "dying days" and he wasn't at all what he claimed to be. You need to be thankful this wasn't someone you honestly have met yet. If there is a slight chance this is true then I am so sorry for what your feeling and going through. But it's a part of life and grieving is a mature feeling everyone feels at one point or another. Your life will go on. Don't put it on hold for this internet man.

It turned out that his heart problem was able to be fixed after a few months. He's still alive, healthy and we also promised to meet in person one day ^.^

Well good luck with that. Internet meetings can be tricky. You don't know what he has at home. He could have a marriage and a house full of children and be leading you to think other wise. On the internet just remember, you can be whatever you want to be. No one will know the difference.