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Sajid84
Apr 24, 2009, 10:02 PM
Hi, Dear I am 25 years old married boy, I want to increase my sexual time during intercourse with my wife, please advise me about tips for increasing time during sex
DSM521
Apr 24, 2009, 10:32 PM
Try changing positions when you think you are almost there. Also if you feel like you are about to , stop and focus on her. Give her oral, kissing, stuff like that. Stop the stimulation on you for a while and stimulate her.
Also I noticed for me it all changed when I got older. It was like when I turned 30 I could go for MUCH longer. I am 31 know and I always thought it was funny how it was like a light switch.
Just change your approach to her a little more. Start by stoking her fire for while. I get the most pleasure by getting my wife off first then she is more than willing to return the favor.
Gemini54
Apr 25, 2009, 01:15 AM
Also, you can buy plastic rings that you put on the base of your penis once it's erect. They assist to maintain the erection and delay ejaculation. Very effective.
Sundance2007
Apr 25, 2009, 03:45 AM
Masturbate longer. Ensure that you are fully erect during masturbation, and when you are about to , let is go. Start again before you go limp. Another way is to press the nerve very hard, which is at the base of your shaft connecting to the balls. Make your partner before you do, Lasting 5 minutes inside a Woman is good enough.
shazamataz
Apr 25, 2009, 04:34 AM
Lasting 5 minutes inside a Woman is good enough.
Wow, you should be trying to both satisfy your partner and yourself... 5 minutes is barely going to get things heated...
JoeCanada76
Apr 25, 2009, 04:37 AM
A good couple of hours... sounds about right. Okay just call me superman.
Masterbating before hand privately before you know your going to have intercourse with your wife. You will last longer. Practise and practise. The more sex you have the longer you will last.
anyi
Apr 25, 2009, 04:04 PM
Increasing sx time doesn't matter what matters is the kind of ejaculation you are getting from your woman
xoxaprilwine
Apr 25, 2009, 04:31 PM
increasing sx time doesn,t matter what matters is the kind of ejaculation you are getting from your woman
I meant to disagree not agree.
mudweiser
Apr 25, 2009, 04:41 PM
Is she complaining that your not lasting too long?
If so try switching positions often, going back to and forth from oral to intercourse.
Try going slow instead of going at it like wild boars.
Introduce toys, so you can alternate from your penis to a toy during intercourse.
Why not try glass dildos - buy two! Have one in warm water and one in cold, so when she's going to have an orgasm you switch to a cold and/or then warm one. It'll make her sing the highest notes.
Another tip: get cock rings. They go around your jimmy and I've heard it helps you last longer and stay harder.
You can buy these at adult stores or online!
Happy humpings,
Sarah
Nestorian
Apr 25, 2009, 04:50 PM
If you are not lasting long enough use other means, such as oral on her to start, then use your imagination, as long as you two are cool with it try it out. Be creative and experiment. Sex isn't just stick it in and get'er done, it's about "making love" too. Learn to be patient and wait your turn while you rev her up and then once she is saticfied or at least reved, then do some intercourse, if she doesn't get off by the time you do, either keep going till she does, or back to the what she liked before hand. (Side note: Did you know that it is possible for a women to have 50 orgasms? Yeah ,only if a vibrater is used though. This is from the book, Understanding human sexuality page 230, first paragraph of regular text. It does say that with hand and or oral stimulation they can have 1-20, on average. I've found this to be facinating.)
"Practice makes perfect";)
liz28
Apr 25, 2009, 05:56 PM
Focus on pleasure in sex rather than the sex act or outcome. Sex is not about the ending, it is about the whole experience.
Getting the girl, having an orgasm, giving an orgasm … these are all important aspects of sex. But the most important element of sex is pleasure!
When you start enjoying every moment of sex … it will go on as long as you want!
Learn your body. Take the time to understand what brings you pleasure and learn how to pleasure yourself better. Don't forget to share your new knowledge with your partner too.
Read up about anatomy. The human body is amazing!
Learn your partner's body. Don't be afraid to ask questions and always be open to trying new things in bed. Explore every part of your partner's body like you have never seen or touched it before.
Every time you engage in sex it is a perfect opportunity to expand your sexual knowledge.
Catsmine
Apr 26, 2009, 10:39 AM
If you don't want to try the rings, a really tight condom will act the same way, preventing blood from leaving your erection, making you last longer.
mudweiser
Apr 26, 2009, 11:04 AM
If you don't want to try the rings, a really tight condom will act the same way, preventing blood from leaving your erection, making you last longer.
If he does do this:
A tight condom shouldn't be used as the only form of protection, only because it will most likely break.
Sarah
Catsmine
Apr 26, 2009, 03:15 PM
Okay, a tight, lubricated, condom. If you're married, how much protection vs. contraception do you need, Sajid?
Clarizzy
May 15, 2009, 09:08 AM
Nice posts!
varghese1981kar
Apr 3, 2012, 05:51 AM
Good medicines help
varghese1981kar
Apr 3, 2012, 05:53 AM
Hi I am not getting enough time
Focus on pleasure in sex rather than the sex act or outcome. Sex is not about the ending, it is about the whole experience.
Getting the girl, having an orgasm, giving an orgasm these are all important aspects of sex. But the most important element of sex is pleasure!
When you start enjoying every moment of sex it will go on as long as you want!
Learn your body. Take the time to understand what brings you pleasure and learn how to pleasure yourself better. Don't forget to share your new knowledge with your partner too.
Read up about anatomy. The human body is amazing!
Learn your partner's body. Don't be afraid to ask questions and always be open to trying new things in bed. Explore every part of your partner's body like you have never seen or touched it before.
Every time you engage in sex it is a perfect opportunity to expand your sexual knowledge.