Parallelism
Apr 23, 2009, 07:48 PM
Okay. This is what is happening in my life right now, I would appreciate all feedback. This is also my first time posting so go easy
First off I'm 19 years old, 6-4' and she said how she loves tall guys (A LOT). She is 22
I met this girl on Craigslist under the dating section (NOT THE HOOKER SECTION). I'm basically a geek with no tattoo's / piercings and she's the complete opposite, she has 9 tatto's and 13 piercings.
We had our first date (also first time we met) at a sushi place and we talked and I thought it went really well. After sushi, that same day she mentioned how we should go to the mall. We did and we walked around and even forgot where we parked, we both had fun.
At the end of our first date (lasted about 6 hours) I said how it would be fun if we had fondue (cheese and bread type of food) tomorrow. She said yes and we did just that.
Finally it brings me to today. After the fondue she said how I should come over with her and watch a movie called Blow (not a porno, it stars Johnny Depp) and we did just that.
We cuddled throughout the whole movie then at the end I finally made a move and started making out with her, making out over time led to sex. Keep in mind I have known her for only 3 days.
--> Just on a side note, I really like her, I like her so much it hurts <--
My question is: Is she just using me for sex or do you think she wants a relationship (she did post in the relationship in craigslist). She does not text me a lot compared to other girls I've talked to or possibly been in a relationship with..
Any help? Thanks for taking the time to read this :) PLEASE ANSWER!
First off I'm 19 years old, 6-4' and she said how she loves tall guys (A LOT). She is 22
I met this girl on Craigslist under the dating section (NOT THE HOOKER SECTION). I'm basically a geek with no tattoo's / piercings and she's the complete opposite, she has 9 tatto's and 13 piercings.
We had our first date (also first time we met) at a sushi place and we talked and I thought it went really well. After sushi, that same day she mentioned how we should go to the mall. We did and we walked around and even forgot where we parked, we both had fun.
At the end of our first date (lasted about 6 hours) I said how it would be fun if we had fondue (cheese and bread type of food) tomorrow. She said yes and we did just that.
Finally it brings me to today. After the fondue she said how I should come over with her and watch a movie called Blow (not a porno, it stars Johnny Depp) and we did just that.
We cuddled throughout the whole movie then at the end I finally made a move and started making out with her, making out over time led to sex. Keep in mind I have known her for only 3 days.
--> Just on a side note, I really like her, I like her so much it hurts <--
My question is: Is she just using me for sex or do you think she wants a relationship (she did post in the relationship in craigslist). She does not text me a lot compared to other girls I've talked to or possibly been in a relationship with..
Any help? Thanks for taking the time to read this :) PLEASE ANSWER!