bowrodgers
Apr 23, 2009, 05:14 PM
my hopefully soon to be x husband... is in the military, he signed up back in October or November. They accepted him.. dose this mean he is active duty? Either way its been over a month I went in today to finish the paperwork, but they told me I cannot because of the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act, but I'm thinking well its not like he's overseas, and he did get served, and I turned in those papers that claim he has been served.. sooo why is this in the way?
they gave me a paper for him to sign, I gave it to him. He says he isn't going to sign it. That he is not ganna file his response until I change the paperwork to at least visitation rights...
He wants me to change my half instead of responding because he is afraid he is ganna lose.
About that: we have one son, he is now 5years old for the entire last year he did not visit, the year before that, he visited once, in fact I allowed him to take him to another county, for a month. For the entirety of the rest of that year he did not visit. During these two years he was not in the military, he was 5 hours away, knowing him if he really wanted to he could have hitchhiked... my point, My son dose not know who he is, I don't think he would even recognize him. So now I don't want him to be apart of his life anymore, so that is why I am filling for sol legal and sol physical, with no visitation.
He is not too busy, I know he is not. How can I get this divorce in front of a judge? And please tell me will I be able to finish it by the end of this year?
they gave me a paper for him to sign, I gave it to him. He says he isn't going to sign it. That he is not ganna file his response until I change the paperwork to at least visitation rights...
He wants me to change my half instead of responding because he is afraid he is ganna lose.
About that: we have one son, he is now 5years old for the entire last year he did not visit, the year before that, he visited once, in fact I allowed him to take him to another county, for a month. For the entirety of the rest of that year he did not visit. During these two years he was not in the military, he was 5 hours away, knowing him if he really wanted to he could have hitchhiked... my point, My son dose not know who he is, I don't think he would even recognize him. So now I don't want him to be apart of his life anymore, so that is why I am filling for sol legal and sol physical, with no visitation.
He is not too busy, I know he is not. How can I get this divorce in front of a judge? And please tell me will I be able to finish it by the end of this year?