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skatercat21
Apr 21, 2009, 06:43 PM
I am almost 15 years old right now and I have never had a boyfriend (unless 1st grade counts hahaha) I've liked a couple of guys but I've never noticed any that like me. I hear people talking about what a guy does when he likes someone but I've never seen any of that. I don't really know any guys very well so I mostly hang out with girls my bffs and everything :) as for personality I'm kind of goofy and I try to be nice to everyone I'm also really shy. I'm just wondering if there is anything I'm doing wrong all my friends tell me that someone will like me sometime but I'm afraid that that's never going to happen

jjwoodhull
Apr 21, 2009, 06:48 PM
There is nothing wrong with you. Continue to be yourself and you will be fine. It might take a little longer for guys to notice you, but when one does it will be for the right reasons. Keep being nice and friendly. Enjoy spending time with the girls for now.

barbiechick123
Apr 21, 2009, 07:47 PM
First of all, 15 isn't too old to not have had a boyfriend... actually, my ideal age for that is 16. Second of all, I'm sure guys have liked you, they are probably shy. At that age, everyone is insecure. Just enjoy girl time, and flirting with boys, don't get caught up in feeling attractive.

Fr_Chuck
Apr 21, 2009, 07:53 PM
Well actually first you are really 14, ( that is almost 15 right) and at 14 many parents will not even allow their children to have girl or boy friends. And this is when normally the first levels of this even start.

But not all people like the same people,

Fuzzball_Kara
Apr 21, 2009, 08:29 PM
Guys are really the last thing you should worry about. At this age it'd be really hard to find a decent one. I think the girl time thing is a good idea. No need to be confined in a relationship. You need to be having single fun (please don't take this the wrong way and go sleep around). There will be plenty of time for boys later.. However, never think there is something wrong with you. A really attractive aspect in a girl is her confidence in herself. You must learn to love the way you are and be yourself in all cases. It's the best you there is! Peace. :)