My husband has been watching porn. He has been watching lesbians and squirting. I am not a squirter and I don't know why he would want to watch it. I find it very disgusting. He has told me he doesn't watch it very often but when I ask him why he needs to he doesn't give and answer.

Just knowing that he is watching porn and getting off bothers me but, he doesn't understand why. Am I wrong for getting upset over my husband watching porn??

Also, lately, my husband has been into a lot of fore play. He likes to please me now. Before we would have sex for about a minute or two, just enough time for him to enjoy it. Now he goes down on me and uses toys on me and Im just confused as to the sudden change. Could there be a reason why he is like this now?

Is the porn and his sudden urge to please me connected somehow?

I can't see the prob honestly maybe your husband is trying to spice up your sex life a little so he is taking sex tips from porn okay so you don't aprove of it but really it is harmless if he enjoys watching it really you should be okay with it its not as if he is having an affair it could be a lot worse I wouldn't worry about it a lot of men and women enjoy porn its just like a pass time for most so please don't take it personally this doesn't mean that you can't satisfy him its just something that gets him going... maybe you could try watching it with him you never know you might like it! :)

I agree with Alana, you shouldn't be concern or have a problem with him watching porn.

He is starting to please you more and your sex life has improve, so what's the problem? If I were you I would be happy because now he's getting it, thanks to porn.

Leave this issue alone and worry about more important things because obivious you're the one that is gaining the benefits from his porn viewing.

I may disagree, if sexual activity is not mutally agreed, it is wrong. Personally if he is not knowing why, then it is a problem.